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If a woman you thought you were friends with blocks you on facebook is it safe to assume you are not friends? - Joseph - 05-24-2014 09:47 PM
I have a friend with benefits who we meet for just sex and she kind of blocked me on there and said that I was violating her privacy by trying to add her. Was I wrong for trying to add her? I didn't know the status of our relationship. and what does this mean she thinks of me?
- Halo - 05-24-2014 09:50 PM
Yes, she probably wants to end your relationship with her, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you personally. She's deciding to block you so she can avoid contact, and is hoping that you'll get the message.
- Julia - 05-24-2014 10:07 PM
I don't think she wants to end your friends with benefits relationship but it has to stay as friends with benefits. She doesn't want you in any other part of her life other than the physical part of it. (It can lead to attachment.) Honestly though I would just flat out ask her. Just ask her if she wants to completely end your relationship or if she just wants to keep those two worlds separate. I have been in a friends with benefits relationship before and both of us agreed that we wanted to keep those two worlds separate.
- The Big E - 05-24-2014 10:18 PM
It may be she blocked you on the public forum of face book because she simply wants only you to know she has a friend with benefits. In any event, if you are genuinely seeking an honest answer to her motivation, I would suggest it can only come from her and not a collection of complete strangers who know nothing about either of you.
- Pinecone - 05-24-2014 10:21 PM
It measn that you are not her friend, to her you're just a male prostitute that she doesn't have to pay. A booty call. She has no interest in you as a person, just your penis. she doesn't want to know your business or for you to know hers. It wasn't "wrong" to try to add her, nor is it "wrong" for her to refuse you as a friend.
- mr pickle - 05-24-2014 10:22 PM
yep, she does not like you.
- Bent Snowman - 05-24-2014 10:29 PM
You are not friends because of what she said to you. People use the word friends with benefits, but she is not using that word.
I think adding someone like that can be naive, but not always, it depends on the case. In this case, it was naive.
- Rodney - 05-24-2014 10:37 PM
She doesn't consider u a friend i'd run away.