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Why do I always have to message her? - 742 - 06-06-2014 03:51 AM
Ok, so this girl who I know has like me for about 2 months. I also really like her.
She added me on facebook and we have had a few really cool conversations, but the problem is, I always have to start them.
She put to me about 2 weeks ago "well i kinda like you to", but then quickly said "omg so sorry that was my friend.
Ive also tried leaving it a while, but still no response. But what I dont understand is why she replies instantly when I message her, but she never messages me.
Is she playing hard to get,nervous?
(the reason we are talking on FB is because we have a 2 week break)
- Djinn04 - 06-06-2014 04:06 AM
Try telling her how you feel about her ,only if you have talked to her before , closed mouths do not get fed.
- Greta - 06-06-2014 04:09 AM
I tend to do that too. Because I don't wanna look clingy or desperate. But If I weren't interested in the guy at all I wouldn't respond. so I'm pretty sure she wants to talk to you, but since you just started talking she's kinda trying to play hard to get. If you really like her keep msging her not too often but just to let her know you are interested. And if you get to see her in person and things move forward she'll start texting you first i'm sure.
- SGM - 06-06-2014 04:15 AM
It's time to 'man up' and find out for sure. You can't be a wimp all your life. Part of being a man is taking risks.
Message her only one thing: "Hi, Susie. When is the best time to call so I can ask you out on a proper date?" (If you don't have her phone number, then you say "Hi, Susie. I need your phone number and also tell me when is the best time to call so I can ask you out on a proper date?"
Either she gives you her number & an exact time or she doesn't. But at least you know for sure if she is worth your time, or if you should move on and ask another girl out.
If she gives you a time, you better call her at that time with a day, time & place already picked out for your date offer to her. No more messaging after that. Save the conversation for the date.