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How to stop obsessing over a crush? - Zhjarahey - 06-09-2014 08:04 PM
- Bryan - 06-09-2014 08:10 PM
Stick it to her younger sister/ let his younger brother stick it to you
- john - 06-09-2014 08:17 PM
- Don't tell your friends about your crush. If you tell them, they will encourage this influence.
- Forgive yourself and him for not liking you and you for falling for him/her.
- Don't try to follow him/her everywhere. he'll think you're a stalker.
- Try to imagine actually spending a life with your guy. Is it really worth it?
- Make friends with lots of other guys. Not to make him/her jealous, but to meet other people.
- Take up a hobby, Something else to occupy your mind.
- Keep your perspective. He/she is not the start or the end of the world.
- Play matchmaker and set up dates for your friends.
- Get a diary and write about your obsession to get it out of your mind.
- Find a responsible adult or a non-gossipy friend to talk about things with.
- If you ask him/her out and you get rejected, remember that if he/her had said yes than it would have hurt more as a break-up than just rejection.
- Get off the computer. Although looking through the boy's Myspace or Facebook profile may seem harmless, this just increases the obsession and becomes a habit.
- Try not to think about them as much. It may be hard to not think about him/her, but not thinking about them helps.
- If you keep on blushing, try your best to breathe slowly.
- E.J. - 06-09-2014 08:23 PM
Read books, and get into other hobbies that interest you. Go to a sports event, movie, or concert with your friends. Get a song stuck in your head for awhile. Learn to play an instrument. Learn to draw. Just get your mind off of him/her and eventually you will stop obsessing.
- Orlando - 06-09-2014 08:24 PM
you have to just stop if that is what you want to do