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Found something out about my bf that he doesn't even know. How do I tell him? - 710 - 06-10-2014 01:57 PM
I was snooping under my bf's Facebook account (don't ask me why) and I saw a message from a woman saying that she was his half sister and his father was previously married to her mother. He is rarely on FB and the message was under his other inbox, so he didn't see it. How do I break this news to him without sounding nosy and without causing conflict in his family?
- Shineâ„¢ - 06-10-2014 02:11 PM
If he knows that's you go to his Facebook sometimes, just find a time where he is in a good mood then say what you saw, but if he have no idea that you check his Facebook stay out of this business it might end bad.
- Dora - 06-10-2014 02:19 PM
Tell him, "Did you know there's an 'other' inbox on Facebook for messages from people that aren't on your list?" He'll get curious and check it.
- RAG - 06-10-2014 02:20 PM
I think that's a big deal and you definitely have to make sure he sees the message in some way. And you shouldn't be snooping on his facebook. But I agree with Dora, just be like 'did you know...' and say you got really funny messages or something and advise that you read his together.
- Patricia - 06-10-2014 02:22 PM
You don't. Just leave it alone. It's not your business until he tells you about it. At that time, you still don't know anything about it.