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Please help? I really need answers!? - 087 - 06-12-2014 03:50 AM
Ok this is long lol. First of all I have a big crush on a guy who I'll call Jared. I've never met him before but I am OBSESSED with him. I will 100% meet him though. I'm going to an overnight camp for 4 weeks that I'll call idk yahoo lol. I am not an overnight person at all. It is 3 hours away from my home. This is really hard to say but the only reason I'm going is for Jared. Well that's not the ONLY reason but the main one. I'm meeting him there for sure and my friend is trying to get us to meet but it's really hard for her and she's doing everything she can. So here is the problem. My brother used to have this group of friends in the summer. Jared was part of it. And they are like a year or two older than me and they used to think I was cute because I was younger lol and they would do funny stuff with me on Facebook and msg me and honestly I want that. I want to be part of that group. They're all really popular around the area. And so cool too. I want to get in that group. And if I do, I'll obviously get close to Jared. Which is another thing I want haha. And don't tell me to msg them on Facebook asking them to hang out because I can't. I can't do that easily and they'd ignore me too. Trust me I know because I'm younger than them. I feel like the only way I can get those friends is to get close to Jared or go to yahoo camp. At Yahoo, that's where most of them are. So are those my only two answers? Please answer seriously
oh yeah ps my brother would never hang out with them ever again haha. But don't really focus on the boy, the question is really about the friends
- Mike - 06-12-2014 03:56 AM
I think you need to be careful. You seem like around 13 or 14 which is far to youg to be obseesing over a guy youve never met
- Megan - 06-12-2014 04:09 AM
Well, first of all dont change yourself to fit in with them. If you do you will never be love for who you really are. If you want to be their friend and you feel like your to young then start dressing older and wearing makeup. They will start to forget that you are younger and start think of you as a peer. Dont rush into it. You will come off creepy. Just when you see them give them a compliment. Thats the easiest way to start a conversation. Slow start having longer and deeper conversations with them. They will being to think of you as a friend. As for jared try and get a little alone time. Make up things to pull him away from the group. Ex. If you all are sitting and eating, ask him to come with you to get napkins or something.
I hope this helped but remember to be yourself.