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A guy likes me but I don't feel the same. What should I do ? - Daniela - 11-09-2012 08:27 AM
Okay so there's this guy that told me he liked me about 2 weeks ago we used to sit next to eachother in class but a day after we switched seats he asked me out on Facebook. I was shocked because I always concisdered him as a friend and nothing else , I said no because I've only known him for a month , we didn't talk after that and now he messages me on Facebook saying what you doing beautiful ? I don't want to be rude and say dont talk to me , but I also don't want him to talk to me like we're going out , I just want him to act like a friend , and I feel weirded out when he tells me those words , And i feel zero attraction in him ,I just need to tell him that I consider him as a friend and nothing else but idk how ? Help please.
- Jacob - 11-09-2012 08:35 AM
Tell him how it is... He'll get over it. First off, and asked you out over facebook. Thats just pathetic and inpersonal... Just say you want to be friends ( i mean if you want to be even friends with this guy).. He will be ok soon lol
- kayjoe21 - 11-09-2012 08:35 AM
Be honest and explain things. If you drag it out its only going to get worse.
- KB - 11-09-2012 08:35 AM
You just need to tell him in person that you just want to be friends nothing more.
- Wayne - 11-09-2012 08:35 AM
explain that you look at him as a friend and that is all. Explain that if he cannot accept that, then you will have to unfriend him on your social media.
- Max - 11-09-2012 08:35 AM
Talk to him. The fact that he asked you out on Facebook, maybe he is to shy to say something to you face to face, and maybe he was just reading the siuation differently and honestly thought you like him too. Tell him it is making you uncomfortable and you want things to go back to the way they were, which is being friends and no unwelcome comments on Facebook. Tell him he is a nice guy and you want to stay friends and also that you think he deserves to find a girl who likes him in that way. Good luck.