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All I did was text my best friend's crush, help!? - 588 - 06-15-2014 07:54 AM
I'm a freshman and one of my really good friends is a junior. She liked this junior for 8 months. However, at a football game I was third wheeling with them because I thought he liked her and they were being flirty. Then he dm'd me on twitter and got my snapchat name.
We then began to snapchat and she found out. She told me to just not respond and I was like okay, but really I didn't think I was doing anything wrong so I still did it. We weren't that flirty with each other but we were. Then he kept asking for my number but I had to keep saying no because that wouldn't be right.
Then, he got it from his friend and started texting me for not even 24 hours. We went out for lunch so that I could tell her but when she read between our messages she flipped out. I apologized and told her I was going to tell her today but she got really upset and mad. I texted her saying I'm sorry but never got a response. What should I do? Did I really do anything wrong? Helppppp!
- Veronica - 06-15-2014 07:55 AM
She probably thought you were trying to "take" the guy she liked.
- Never - 06-15-2014 07:58 AM
Yes you were wrong! You're a bad friend!
- Emily - 06-15-2014 08:07 AM
No, actually you didn't! it's just texting. My friends sometimes text my crush. Sure, I get a little (okay fine maybe really) jealous, but it's nothing bad. Just tell your best friend that you would never do anything to flirt with him. Remember, Chicks before Dicks! or Sisters before misters! Good luck.
- Wam - 06-15-2014 08:10 AM
Tell her the truth and be honest,be like i do think hes cute but im not going to do anything else,be like he got my number and if she doesn't believe you then just forget your relationship,a true friend wouldn't be like that :/ hope this helps,and sit down with both the girl and guy and talk about this issue
- Olaf - 06-15-2014 08:21 AM
There really isn't an easy way out of this. If your friend is mad, and you like this guy, then you should go out with him because your friend is already mad at you, so it can't really get any worse. If you don't like this option and you can't think of anything else that'll work, maybe you should kill yourself. Or you could kill the person causing the problem - whether it's the guy or your friend, you decide.