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Does this girl just not care ? 10 pts for best answer? - 780 - 06-21-2014 03:52 AM
Theres this girl i talk with a lot. And today we were talking and she asked what something stood for. and i answered along with 'dorko' added at the end. she merely responds with an 'lol ok'. i guess she doesnt really care about me huh . Like recently (she's on spring break with her sorority so i sort of understand) she hasn't been msging/snapping me as much....
i once drunk txd her in the past: 'I like you. but i try to protect myself because i've been hurt in the past' followed by a 'that is probably TMI'
and she responded: 'Im kind of like that too. Dont worry! Nothing wrong with that' 'Haha you silly drunk'
what do you guys think
one time in the past i drunk txtd her mean things and out of embarassment i deleted her # and removed her from FB. i guess she noticed cause she asked why i did that and when i ignored her she txtd me 2 days later: can i at least know why you said those things. they were rude and mean. She snapchats me often too and when I didnt respond she was like: thanks for snapping me back .
thoughts?
- Joe - 06-21-2014 03:58 AM
That's harsh, I'd say you can apologize for everything and be honest or leave it like that.. If you were rude to her she probably sees it, and is confused because she probably sees that you like her too. But I guess being 1/2 there is your way of coping with your feelings for her, before talking to the guy I am now, I talked to another guy and he deleted me off fb, my number and stop texting me because I didn't give him any hints that I liked him.. And he really didn't like that. But I realized that it's not healthy to hold back, I'm going thru a similar situation but in kinda a different way. I have never been emotionally attracted to someone so much in my life and it was all because I let go, and now I can feel him feeling the same feelings. It's amazing to be on the same page, mutual feelings are the only feelings. Maybe you can answer my recent question, best of luck to you !
- Andra - 06-21-2014 04:04 AM
She's confused by your actions and doesn't know what you actually want from her. And because she sticks with you like that she actually might like you a little .
If you give her mixed signals like love/hate caring/not caring then nothing will work out. You have to decide weather you like her or just wanna be friends before you expect something from her .