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What do you think he wants? confused and need opinions.? - elizabeth - 11-09-2012 08:56 AM
well my ex who i was with for 13 months broke up with me on Monday and said he was done with me and wasn't changing his mind. Then Tuesday he texts me asking to put everything behind us and just be friends but i said no. so wednesday was halloween and on facebook i posted pics of myself and a status saying i had a fun night. but then right after i did that he starts posting pics too and statuses that seemed aimed toward me to get a rise of jealousy out of me... so i deactivated my facebook so i wouldnt hurt myself by seeing all this. so then thursday night he texts me saying he wants to clear the air and be friends but if i want to ignore him he understands. i didnt replt, because i told him tuesday i do NOT want to be friends. Then tonight he texted me again and said he doesnt see why i have to be this way and that even though our relationship didnt work he thinks a friendship can. and that we went through too much for me to just ignore it. he asked if he means that little to me now, and when i didnt reply he texted again saying he sees how its gonna be now... then he says " I hope you find real happiness which i'm sure you already did"
Honestly I think it's selfish of him not to think about how id feel just being friends....i think it would hurt too much because i do love him so much...and HE left me.....
I just need opinions...cause im confused...
what does it look like he wants from me... ?
I think he just wants to be friends for sex....
idk..just give me opinions ppl! Please..
- jessmo - 11-09-2012 09:05 AM
Just keep ignoring him. What are you- in 8th, 9th grade? You don't need to deactivate your fb over some moron. You CAN be your own woman: by forgetting about him. Not all relationships work out, and it really hurts. But, if you don't want to be friends with him, don't be with him at all. You can do better!!!
- Starin - 11-09-2012 09:05 AM
Seriously, guys like that are not worth it, even your heart is telling you that, just stay away from him.....or he is going to make you suffer alot.
- Joseph - 11-09-2012 09:05 AM
Lady its over so let stay that way, If you fall into he sorry low down trap you will be treated worst than a prostitute. Please lady go on with your life. I'm a man i see bull crap a mile away. So if you want to go on enjoy life don't answer none of his text. You should grow from happen an move on Read 1 Corinthian 13 chapter and 1-13 verse, it talks about love. This is how you should have love in your heart from the start of relationship till finish , but you gamble with anything else you will end up ion this same road. Seek GOD for guidance you will never be unhappy. Don't listen to people , get to know GOD for your self, GOD loves you more than any man ever could. But i know you don't believe me. well its your lost. But all i can said is the safest place in the whole wide world in in the will of GOD. peace always
- IBNFE USN - 11-09-2012 09:05 AM
the most important thing you said regarding resolving this is that "HE LEFT YOU". He is going to keep playing this game as long as you play along. He obviously isn't over you or he wouldn't be going to all this trouble. Sounds like he wants the fringe benefits without the commitment. Such a guy thing. Anyway, I can almost guarantee you the second you remind him that he left you and tell him to stop texting you and change your status to single he will be at your front door on his knees begging for your forgiveness. When that happens (if you even want him back) take advantage of it. First of all don't give in easy, make his dumb @ss beg for it, and when you finally do give in lay down some serious no-sh*t ground rules. Have fun with it. You have this guy wrapped around your finger but you just don't realize it.
- Mitch D - 11-09-2012 09:05 AM
tell him to leave you alone and if that dont work get a piece bond