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I have a jealousy issue. Be warned, because I'm gonna really spew out my guts here.? - Steven - 11-09-2012 09:03 AM
There is a person in my high school I've been jealous of since I was a sophomore. He, like me, came as a freshman in high school. He also came from a christian school like me before going to high school. as a junior now, he hasnow made plenty of friends, while I have only managed 2 or 3. He is in cross country and track, while i am in neither, has good grades while I have c's and d's, and I will admit, while facebook stalking him, have seenhim over the past year with 2 or 3 different girls with him on his profile picture; I can barely talk to girls. The biggest thing that hurts is in one class where me and him are both in. His friends will greet him with enthusiasm and hold him in almost a higher light, while when i enter they'll barely look at me. For most of sophomore year and the beginnings of my junior year, I have been jealous of him, wondering why I am like this, howhe is better than me at everything. He is also a christian, as am I, so I always wonder why God chose to put me in such a position and why he put him in such a position. I am still nervous, shy, can't make friends with people. Part of the reason I think is that in my old school, all the people I had friends with, were already my friends since 3rd gradel since then, I haven't made too many friends, that is where I made the most friends. I feel that now, in a high shcool environment, I won't know how to make friends the 'right way', so to speak, and that people will shun me. I am currently at a 2.4 grade average, no extracurricular activites, barely any friends, socially poor, and that is my story these past 2 years. Any positive feedback would appreciated.
- that 1 chick - 11-09-2012 09:12 AM
God doesnt exist so thats not your problem. You clearly don't like yourself. And you just flat out think he is better. You can't be so negative toward yourself. Stop comparing. Society is ugly and socially backwards. Find a club or activity in school that you like. Getting involved will help you find people you have stuff in common with. Stop paying attention to people you don't like.
- Poppy Louise - 11-09-2012 09:12 AM
I'm not Christian, but based on my knowledge your God treats people equally. And you'll have your time when you're better, smarter, and a bigger life. Seriously, nothing stays the same forever.
- Rosalie - 11-09-2012 09:12 AM
God does exist!! You need to stop comparing yourself with this other guy. God made you special and different and He loves you.