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Should I do this or forget it? - Neon Pink Nails - 11-09-2012 09:12 AM
So three weeks ago I messaged a guy on this dating site saying "Hey how are?" and he said "Hey Im good, just busy with work and then school starts in late September." I responded with "Oh busy huh? Is that a blow off hahaha? Anyways I was wondering if you wanted to hang out or maybe you only like blondes?" He didn't respond and then I deleted that profile. I made a new one a day later and messaged "Hey I think I messaged you asking you to hang out and something else. So anyways, how's life?" and then he didn't get on for 3 weeks until this past Monday. He saw the message but didn't respond. I'm thinking of a final message saying "I'm never persistent with guys, but I saw we had alot in common and you seem like a decent guy so I'll try one last time. My name is _____ and you can find me on Facebook if you want." Should I or not?
I just won't do it. I told myself I'd delete it on Friday. I keep getting messages from guys that are very attractive but they don't seem to want anything substantial. Oh well, it's not meant to be. If I was meant to date him or even go on a first date with him then he'd have messaged me. Maybe the message I said asking him if he only liked blondes was stupid.
- Joseph - 11-09-2012 09:21 AM
lol yes do it, what have you got to loose
just go for it xxx
- Kelly - 11-09-2012 09:21 AM
He's been consistently blowing you off. Don't embarrass yourself.
- Question guru :) - 11-09-2012 09:21 AM
Personally I wouldn't send the last message. If you're anything like me tho when people give you advice you end up doing what YOU want to do anyway. If you feel you should do it follow your gut but I would wait a while to see like you're also busy! Good luck!
- J - 11-09-2012 09:21 AM
He doesn't seem interested. Let it go. If he wants to find you or talk to you, he can find a way.
- Paige - 11-09-2012 09:21 AM
Don't worry your self if he is blowing you off this much he seems like a waste of time.
- Rob - 11-09-2012 09:21 AM
hahaha. umm...wow. ok so this is how I act in front of her.
from a guy, to a gal, let me be as clear as day, "He's not into you,"
If he was into you, he'd have responded immediately, "Like, hey! sorry i'm busy, but can we meet next Friday ?"
or "no, it's not a blowoff. i can like some brunettes. =)"
trust me - just like the movie - if a guy is going after a girl, he will go to prison to meet her.
sorry. =/. i'm sure there are TONS of other guys out there. try again. keep your chin up.
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