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My girlfriend and her best friends ! Please advice !!? - Goncalo - 11-09-2012 10:09 AM
So i started dating with this amazing girl. She´s my soul mate so perfect. But the problem is that she has a lot of best friends (guys). And im a little jealous. She said that loves me very much and would never cheat on me... but this is the first time im on a serious relationship so im insecure. She is considered " hot " by all the guys if you know what i mean... so guys hit on her. But yesterday the best friend published on her facebook wall " I love you <3 " and she commented " what a liar ". But i saw a comment from her on 1 pic of him that says " I love you <3 you´re beautiful ". She said she loves me very much... and promised me that would never cheat but.... im so insecure.... Please advice !!! What should i do ?!?! Thanks
- brokenheart - 11-09-2012 10:17 AM
dude!! this is shiit
tell her to distance from them and u r jealous and its UR RIGHT FIGHT FOR IT OR LEAVE HER
- Sarah - 11-09-2012 10:17 AM
don't worry it sounds like she loves you, and don't be the type that ends relationships with her friends, you just gotta trust her, and show her you trust her too
- Sarah - 11-09-2012 10:17 AM
so what the guy likes her, you can't stop him. she like's you not him you.. don't be insecure it's makes relationship's hard trust me.
- Patrick - 11-09-2012 10:17 AM
Agree with ^^^^^^^^^^
This is some bullshit.
Ask her whats up with all that but dont be angry about it. you gotta be calm when you ask her. Maybe shes just one of those chicks but check it out just to be sure.
- Love - 11-09-2012 10:17 AM
You do not mention ur ages, but if you are under 21, she is probably just exploring life. Not saying she is or is not going to be with other guys (as you say cheat).
But if you both are over 21, then she and you have explored life a little and she should know what she wants and doesn't want. In that case, she should respect ur feelings and stop hanging with the boys.
- Cammy - 11-09-2012 10:17 AM
You have every right to be jealous. Most of the time when Hot girls have so many guy friends, it's because they have been friend zoned. they are usually waiting for a chance to leap on her. She probably rejected them in the past and thats what she sees them as.. but not them.
If you continue on, I'm not sayin she will give in but I bet there is a lot of temptation she will have to put up with.. and that isn't always easy. You have every right to ask her to distance herself from the guy friends if she is in a comitted relationship. Don't ask her to not be friends with them.. that's a little too far.. but way less hangouts and no I love you's.