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LOT OF PEOPLE HELP I really want this guy to like me? - Bollomollo - 11-09-2012 10:21 AM
I'm really trying to not be too much and find the fine line, however I'm also scared that he would forget me.... So I've thought it's better taking a few steps too much rather than being too hesitant.. right...? right...? or maybe not...
There is this guy I have a huge crush on and when we talk we smile and have lots of eyecontact, you know...
And one day we sat in the bus beside eachother and talked a lot, and he was so cute... So when I got home I added him on FB and he accepted immediately however he was/is NEVER online so I could never start a convo the easier way to get to know him... We go to the same school but rarely talks there because we have different groups of friends, and we go to very different classes, so we're only "in the same room" like 4 tims a year, and when we are we usually small talk a little and go each our ways...
So earlier when we talked he told me about a video game that reminded a bit of a game we both play, so I said I considered buying it. I then asked him which version was best aso. - so a few days later I asked him for help in the game in a private message on facebook, i figured the question was a little stupid and I didnt want him to think i'm helpless or something like that, so a few minutes later after I wrote a new message said "nevermind I figured it out, i was just being blind lol"
I know he saw it one day later (it says when it is read) and it's now 3 days ago, and never replied my friend told me that he probably think I was being too clingy for buying the game as he thinks I just bought it to get him to notice me... And thats why he doesn't reply...
Help, do I seem to clingy in his eyes? We don't have classes together in school and we rarely meet to talk! I dont know what to do I thought a facebook convo would start things up a little, but now I regret and I feel a bit humiliated and I am scared to see him :/... What should I do, can I save myself from embarrasment? He obviously isn't as into me, as I am into him... Not at all.. Do I have any chance with this amazing guy at all? :/
- Jerry - 11-09-2012 10:29 AM
"are you gonna ask me out or not?" is what you say to him.
- Margaret - 11-09-2012 10:29 AM
I like the 'are you gonna ask me out or what' line! Don't mind your friend, some people like to be spiteful.
- VanessaG - 11-09-2012 10:29 AM
You sound really young, so if you are under 16 ignore this advice. The only way to get him to take you seriously or to stop focusing on games is to make him think you will let him bone you. That is the only chance you have. if he is too young and immature, like it sounds then there is really nothing you can do.
- Faridzul - 11-09-2012 10:29 AM
Dont be too easy nor to hard-to get for the guy. Be yourself, and relax.
Take your time to know him first. Be his friend. Dont think more than that..
After a while, you will know whether you really like him or just attracted to him..
- LGI - 11-09-2012 10:29 AM
U can't make nobody like you if they don't honey. Men don't like clingy girl's they gotta have space thats prolly why he running from you.
- Christian - 11-09-2012 10:29 AM
Go to the extreme! Do the SSS!
Stalk him, study him, seduce him.
- Ann - 11-09-2012 10:29 AM
You should have some friends at school ask him if he likes you? Cuz it either yes or no and it better to know either answer so you can move on ig he doesnt or keep flirting if he does like u? Or write him a note in school urself and start a convo with him that way and see if he asks you if u like him 1st?
- When u know it :) - 11-09-2012 10:29 AM
No guy will like you... Jus sayin....