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a married co-worker searching for sexual...? - MindUrbusiness - 11-09-2012 10:41 AM
with the absence of one of my female co-worker,i was forced to sit and work at her place,getting some free time i just tried to check my Facebook account,and when i try to do so...her profile appeared! this is because she is permanently logged in(forgetting that this is the comapny's machine).something attracted my attention because the profile pic was not her real picture...finally i came to know that the woman has created a fake account with a fake pic and claiming that she is single and never have a relationship.when i read the conversations she made with her friends its all about 'i need to have sex with you'.she is married before a year+.should i tell her husband what is going on? or should i tell her to stop her immoral acts??? or SHOULD I IGNORE AND MIND MY OWN BUSINESS? don't know what to do
- Sunshyne - 11-09-2012 10:49 AM
I honestly think you should just ignore it. She's not a friend I assume and neither is her hubby? She's a co-worker and that's it? If that's the case, then mind your own business. Getting involved would only make things horrible at work. If you feel like you can't let it go, then tell her you saw her FB and that you think what she is doing is wrong and how would she feel if her hubby was doing the same thing.... but you can't tell her to quit her immoral acts because it's really none of your business how she chooses to live her life. You may not agree with it, but it doesn't affect you. You live your life the way you need to and let her mess hers up if that's what she wants to do.
- no1advice - 11-09-2012 10:49 AM
You need to leave her alone. Mind your own business....and quit crusing chicks at work. Work is for work and business not trying to find dates.
She's a lying cheat so leave her alone. She will tell everyone lies about you too if you even attempt to sleep with her. So be warned.
- Margot - 11-09-2012 10:49 AM
Well gee, you haven't minded your business already, why start now. You come across as judgmental and nosy because you don't like her. Perhaps she set up a fake account and left it open to catch you in the act. For all you know, her husband also has a fake account and she was writing to him...in an attempt to catch you.
How do I know you don't like her? Well, let's see....
1. You say you were "forced" to sit at her desk.
2. You make the comment that she checks FB from work forgetting that this is the company's machine. When you are no more concerned about the company's machine since you were checking FB from work too.
How do I know you are nosy? Because as soon as you saw that her FB was open, you didn't immediately close out of her account. And you snooped. Who cares if you saw a different photo and that it was unusual. You went the extra step to read her messages in detail and click on her profile page to see her marital status and who knows what else. So much for you respecting the company's computer.
Oh, and now instead of simply keeping it to yourself or casually mentioning it to her, you want to destroy her marriage by reporting what you saw to her husband. And you further gossip by talking about it on the internet....in a oh so helpful what should I do fake concern sort of way.
Leave it alone. And quit snooping. She set up a fake account to catch you.
- eyecue_two - 11-09-2012 10:49 AM
With knowledge comes power. You now have the power. IT is up to you to decide how to use it, if you use it at all. First you have to prove that it was her profile. Then you have to decide what is important in this situation. Then you have to realize that using someones computer that is not yours could result in issues with work and with legal problems. So I would just think HMMMM interesting and let it go.
- Expertmonth574 - 11-09-2012 10:49 AM
If she isn't supposed to be on Facebook on company time why were you on there.
- india lima foxtrot - 11-09-2012 10:49 AM
I would casually make her wonder if you had seen the account. Voila! She is now your go-to when you need someone to cover you.
- rock of ages - 11-09-2012 10:49 AM
Ignore it and let her dig her own grave.