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planned to hang out w/ me but canceled plans and hung out with each other instead? do you think this is wrong? - Serious - 11-09-2012 10:51 AM
ok my so called new "friends" planned to do stuff with me this weekend, but then canceled plans on me, one fo them agreed to go to a bday party on saturday and another agreed to meet with me today and now they both canceled plans, they said they're busy and couldnt meet with me, they told me they were busy with other stuff but on facebook they posted that they are together right now, and one girl kept asking me to let me let her borrow notes, and it seemed like they wanted to b my friend and planned to do stuff but i think its wrong for them to lie to me and agree to meet with me first and then cance plans and hang out together instead, it happened twice already, on halloween they planned something together without me and then i asked if one of them is going to school and she said she's "not doing well" but on facebook it says that they were out .together. should i stop being friends with them or talk to both of them?
- Gumpilicious - 11-09-2012 10:59 AM
They sound nasty, immature and hurtful. Real friends would never treat you this way. The next time they want something (like school notes etc) say no, or make an excuse if ur not strong enough to say no. They sound like users. I would NEVER treat my friends with such disrespect, you are worth way more than both of them.
- Siona - 11-09-2012 10:59 AM
you have to stand up to them but before think about what you are going to say because most people forget when it comes to speaking their mind! Just try to take another friend if not possible then go alone and ask them why they have been ignoring you and canceling your plans with them and tell them that if they don't like you then you dont need their fake friendship! good luck i wish you the best<333