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HELP this Girl is so complicated? - Super - 11-09-2012 11:06 AM
I asked a girl for her number she said sure and her face turned reddish and she was flustered as she gave it to me. I called and asked her to dinner...she calls back and says not one on one or dinner but I like hanging out with you and talking with you but just with sisters or a small group and as friends.
Ok so I called once to respond a little got voice mail...so I waited 1 month and text her saying I'll totally honor and respect you and your feelings on that. "That" being hanging out as friends...then I text her inviting her and her sister to lunch the next day. No response...not a big deal for me either.
3 days later she takes me off her facebook friends list!! Wow I was so shocked...it's like she skipped all the steps of problem solving and did a drive by blowing up the whole place. So I'm kinda confused and never thought she was like this...we've been friends for almost a year now. I guess she has no respect for me to tell me what's going on. What was she trying to say by taking me off her friends list..?? Her two sisters still have me on theirs. I thought I said something nice and thoughtful to her...and she's the one who said she liked hanging out and talking with me(pretty strongly stated btw) not me...I just did what I thought she wanted.
Girls it's actually worse when you ignore guys...just be up front with them. Whoever came up with that is an idiot...."ok I don't wanna hurt his feelings so I'll ignore him"...Brilliant ( sarcasm).
Might hurt a little, but no where as bad as being ignored...that's just rude and cruel.
So what should I think of this so called "friend". She must hate me is that what she's trying to say? Is she just mad...I'm fine with being friends with her, I said that...whatelse does she want me to say?
**Yes I know she's probably not interested in me...only a very very slight chance of that. I'm not asking that.
- Nicholas - 11-09-2012 11:14 AM
Grow some balls.
You should have been up front and said you wanted to go out with her.
She was testing whether you were a man.
You failed.
- Zswaggerfan405 fan - 11-09-2012 11:14 AM
i dont think she likes you sorry. when she said she wanted to hang out she dosent want to go on a date but she just wouldnt mind hangin gout with you with a group of mutual friends. I just dont think she wants you to et the wrong idea. Hey she didnt delete you as a friend on Facebook