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What should I do in this case. Please help? - Brandon - 11-09-2012 11:09 AM

I started dating this girl a few months ago and when I told her how I felt she made it obvious that she didn't want a boyfriend because she just got out of a relationship but did want to take it slow with me and keep going forward...very slowly. Just recently she started to date another guy and hasn't been talking to me much. Not nearly as much as we used to.
The thing is, she hides pictures of them on Facebook by cropping him out or by taking the pictures off her timeline. However I know they have gone on dates because I know the guy. I text her a few days ago and she hasn't responded. What should I do? I believe she is still interested in me because she hides the pictures because she thinks I don't know about him. Should I keep trying? I am still very interested in her and I want to have her. I feel like if I stop talking to her then I definitely won't get her. She was honest with me that she didn't want a relationship so I can't be mad because she wasn't my gf. What should I do?
I don't think I am pushing her. I sent her 2 text both saying hi with a little but of flirting....and then left it up to her. I never asked her to explain anything or made her "check in"


- Mallory - 11-09-2012 11:17 AM

She's made it clear she doesn't want a relationship. So why are you pushing her?

"Try" in the sense that you're friendly and can make her feel comfortable. Casually talk to her. Also take this opportunity to get to know other girls too (not beyond dating).

What if she's hiding the pictures for another reason than you? I usually don't like having fb pics of someone with me.


- Heart Heart - 11-09-2012 11:17 AM

Honestly, it doesn't sound like its worth the try. She still seems unsure about what she wants to do, so give it time!