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Should I tell him I miss us flirting? - Tash - 11-09-2012 12:41 PM
Ok, very long story short. I'll try to male it short anyway. There was this guy, called Callum, who I met on Facebook through my best friend (they were dating at the time).
They broke up, and I got closer to Callum, cheering him up, etc.
Then we started flirting, and we would text each other all day everyday, and I was just so happy
Then, about a month ago, he said it would never work, because we live too far away and blah blah.
I was fine with it for a bit, you know just being friends.
But, now I'm really starting to miss when we use to flirt, and we were just happy all the time.
I'm constantly sad now, as I think of what we used to have, and now we just hardly text & constantly get bored.
I can't always talk to him about how I feel, because I sometimes tend to over react, and it pisses him off.
Should I just tell him I miss it? Or try to just forget it
.Please help:'(
- Heyy you! - 11-09-2012 12:49 PM
i think he kinda just used you when he was down (from the break-up) after he started thinking about the situation he decided he wasnt all tht into you (sounds harsh) and so now he's not talking to you trying to leave it in the past. i say you can forget about the flirting action with him.
you should find someone else to make you happy
- Emily - 11-09-2012 12:49 PM
I just went through a sort of similar situation. Ended a lot different and there were different circumstances. I would forget it if i were you. I have a tendency to over react as well, and it drives the guy farther away. You don't want that. Healing takes time.
- SupMeing - 11-09-2012 12:49 PM
Yeah just get over this guy. It's never a good idea to fall for a person after they go through a break up. Look for a new friend. This will keep your mind away from Callum. The fact that you piss Callum off makes it even less likely that you'll end up together.
It sucks now but as soon as you have a new interest, I promise you will immediately feel better, and you'll completely stop thinking about this dude.
Good luck!
