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i went on my girlfriends facebook and i find her talking to other guys? - Vb - 11-09-2012 04:45 PM
well i went on her facebook and looked in her inbox and im not happy at all.
there is this one kid and she is telling him to give her a hug at school tomorrow.
and then there is this other guy, she told him he has a great body.
now i know you may think im jelouse, but im only worrying because i care.
is it anything bad, what can i do how can i sort thigns out?
- Anu - 11-09-2012 04:53 PM
Just talk to her dude. why thinking so much? just ask her straight and if she is really serious about you she will tell everything. Just believe her. show some trust buddy
- do you love me? - 11-09-2012 04:53 PM
unless you see signs she is actually cheating on you, you can't really do anything much. best to confront her and see what she says? if she starts getting defensive then something may be wrong, but if she seems pretty innocent and says she won't do it if you don't want her to then it should be fine
- Caitlin R - 11-09-2012 04:53 PM
Your first mistake was checking your girlfriend's messages, talk about rude. Maybe she sent them on purpose because she knows you're nosy.
I understand worrying so I'm going to give you some advice. Tell her you saw them messages first, and be honest. Don't give her any excuses as to why you were snooping.
Chances are she just needed a hug and doesn't want you to know why. The body thing, can you honestly say you don't look at other girls?
Don't let one comment screw up your relationship.
- elizabeth - 11-09-2012 04:53 PM
You can stop reading her email for starters. Going through someone's personal things always asks for trouble. Besides, how would you like to have your privacy violated? Try having an open and honest relationship instead of one that involves being sneaky and shady.
- Danielle - 11-09-2012 04:53 PM
nothing is going to happen(i don't think). i tell guys they have good body's all the time but i don't like them. and she could be saying she wants a hug cause she hasn't talked to him in a while and they were friends and she misses him. so i don't think you should do anything but if it is bothering you so much then you can talk to her but she could just get mad and say that you don't trust her and that could cause a fight.
hope it helped...
- IAmAPeach - 11-09-2012 04:53 PM
............ this is exactly why facebook is bad news. my ex and I always had this problem. Alot of times these msgs are misinterpreted (she may just be talking out her *** to boost the ego a bit). Either way, if you bring it up to her and shes innocent, she'll be choked that you looked in her inbox without permission. OR you'll be even more disappointed to know that she is more fliratious than you'd like a girlfriend to be. I don't want to tell you what to do because the outcome won't be that great no matter how you approach it. personally, I would bring it up in a nonconfrontational way (otherwise it would eat away at me until i did broach the subject).
- Justus - 11-09-2012 04:53 PM
Make sure that you know she is telling everyone that she isn't single.
&make sure she actually really likes you.
Also, going into her mail is privacy violation. but i understand what your talking about.
Don't suffocate her, but ask her whats up.
- Murad - 11-09-2012 04:53 PM
Leave her Facebook alone, lol. Seriously... whatever's going on, you'll only make it worse by appearing to be a needy, meddlesome loser. She'll start making a joke of you to her new guy friends now.