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My mom is messaging my boyfriend on facebook!? What should I do? - LD - 11-09-2012 05:02 PM

My mom has been sending my boyfriend MANY messages on facebook (will send 5 at a time) with information about colleges, financial aid, etc. I understand she is trying to be helpful but it is embarassing and way too much. Am I right to think this is not okay? What can I say to help her understand it really bothers me?!

Thank you!


- ... - 11-09-2012 05:11 PM

Have him block her. She does not have to know you told him to.


- Billy - 11-09-2012 05:11 PM

whoaa.....yeah i'd find that pretty uncool too.
no you're not wrong to tell her you don't like it. she should understand and stop. if not, then tell your boyfriend to block her.


- Edvin - 11-09-2012 05:11 PM

say its my life


- knightrunner13 - 11-09-2012 05:11 PM

Block iggy or just delete her messages


- Bree :) - 11-09-2012 05:11 PM

Omg that is so embarrassing! D: I would die if my mom did that. Tell your boyfriend to block her or delete her or just tell her straight up to butt out but that you appreciate her help. Good luck!

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- 80ist - 11-09-2012 05:11 PM

All he has to say is that he's got the info already
That's more diplomatic than blocking her
After all one day she may be his mom in law and then???


- granny - 11-09-2012 05:11 PM

Don't know you age nor you boyfriend's, but I have a feeling she is making sure your boyfriend gets a good education in order to take really good care of you.

I find her behavior unacceptable regardless of her reasons, you should tell your mom to stop communicating with your boyfriend and just to make sure tell your boyfriend to block her.

By the way, how does your boyfriend feel about it?, that's kind of important.


- Mandie - 11-09-2012 05:11 PM

Talk to your Mom, explain that you appreciate her help but that you are his girlfriend and you 2 want to handle this college stuff together.. don't put her down, its nice that she is being helpful but sometimes parents need put in their place but hurting someones feelings won't help the situation, neither will keeping your mouth shut if it truly bothers you... Just say something to her..