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what to say when a girl says that her heart is paining? - Dipayan - 11-09-2012 05:04 PM
my friend hooked me up wid dis chick on facebook..we've been chatting for a while now..
when i first told her that i'm single and available she said "oh my heart is paining! help me!"...so guyz wat do u think is dis good or bad? wat should i say?
- Lenny - 11-09-2012 05:12 PM
1st stop typing like an idiot.
- Lenka - 11-09-2012 05:12 PM
First thing off, she sounds kind of dumb by saying that her heart is "paining" instead of the gramatically correct phrase "is in pain". But if you like dumb girls...
Anyway, by saying that I think that she means that she has been badly hurt by someone and that she wants you to help her through it. I can't really tell you if it's good or bad, but lets just say that it's good because now you will get to comfort her and get to know her better by doing so. On the other side, it's bad for her because she's in pain. But to think about it, it's good for her as well because if you help her then she'll be no longer be in pain as well as be closer to you.
Try to comfort her, but first you need to find out what has really happened. It could be a relative that has passed away, a boyfriend that has dumbed her, a pet which ran away... anything. By meaning comfort I mean be there for her, listen to her and say the right things, e.g. if her boyfriend dumped her, say that he was not worth dating an amazing girl like she is, etc. I hope this helps!
Good luck!