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Is it wrong to be sick to my stomach, that my married friend got a number from a man on FB? - SweetCheeks - 11-09-2012 05:19 PM
I'm highly annoyed. Because he isn't married and her facebook doesn't say she is. But she is. I'm now sick to my stomach because I know she's had affairs before. But claims she left that behind her. What would you do?
- Laney - 11-09-2012 05:28 PM
Not be involved in her life. Those kind of people are toxic.
- .............. - 11-09-2012 05:28 PM
She's a whore. Maybe I wouldn't worry about it though- unless she starts talking to your boyfriend/husband. (she may also try to steal him from you!)
- Queen Habibi - 11-09-2012 05:28 PM
It is hard.
From a family standpoint: confronting her on the reasons why and what would the consequences would be if her husband found out. What would she do and all those questions that she is not thinking of (apparently). If she has children- what would think of mommy when they are of age and how they see her from what they did not know to what they know now. Shock, shameful, hurt, broken.. and all.
From a friends standpoint: should be pretty much the same because you may treat each other as sisters- as family.
Listen, I have an older sister who does this and confided in me. I did gave her my family values standpoint and she ignored me. She almost gotten caught and her husband confided in me that he is suspicious of her comings and goings.
I love them both but I had to stay out of martial affairs such as this. Did I make a good decision? I do not know. However, from then on- whenever she does something wrong - I am the one he takes his insults on.
We no longer have a family bond - they severed all ties with me. I have moved six hours away from their (more like her) dramas. I hear that they blame me from time to time - even though I am not there but this only caused other relatives suspicions and most decided not to hear it at all.
I am sorry that you are placed in the middle by her actions, but You do have a choice.
You can be part of her scheme OR
You can hold onto your values and voice it out. Your choice- your life .
Hope you make a decision that you feel in your gut is right. The best to you.
- LL - 11-09-2012 05:28 PM
Don't trust this girl with your boyfriend/husband.
- *bella* - 11-09-2012 05:28 PM
Karma is a Bit!! their fore mind YOUR business and get over it... NOT ur problem...