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Ladies, how would you feel if your boyfriend had a few pictures up of him and his ex girlfriend on facebook? - Lina S - 11-09-2012 05:27 PM
Ladies, how would you feel if your boyfriend had a few pictures up of him and his ex girlfriend on facebook? The guy i just started dating has 3 pix of him and his ex gf...in 2 pictures they are hugging....should i be worried? they been broken up for 3 months now.
- sabrina - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
quite jealous ....
3 months is a long.. and even though theres nothing between them you can't help but feel a bit worried..
- sabrina - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
i would feel disrespected,i would think he still have feelings for her,dont be worried just ask him to get rid of those pic,here is the trick if he does he doesnt care about her i,if he doesnt he does care about her and you should be worried.
- Chloe - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
He's not your boyfriend, you just started dating him. If they've only been broken up 3 months, I wouldn't worry about it.
- Vincent Alexander - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
My girlfriend still has a few pictures up with her ex in them. Doesn't really bother me.
Now, if the pictures were of the two of them kissing or something like that, then I'd probably have an issue with that. Remember that this guy was her boyfriend, he's part of her past, and that's not going to vanish. If she's with you, and she's happy, then that's really all you need to be concerned about.
- Anna - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
A little insulted. If he still has those pictures up in facebook, he's kinda insensitive.
- ChefRoche - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
I wouldnt be happy, but theres every possibility that he just hasnt thought about taking them off, maybe you should just ask him? The thing I find with facebook is if you have alot of pictures it can be a right pain to find the ones you want anyway
- mmm - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
he isn't over her, he's still trying to get with him, she still thinks they have a chance and he doesn't want her to think anything different = those are 3 reasons why they are still up
talk to him - explain to him that you went on his facebook and noticed he still had pictures of 'insert name' and him hugging and it makes you feel unconfortable. Wait for his reaction. IF its no big deal and he just forgot about them, he would say, IF YOU WERE IMPORTANT, oh crap I didn't know those were still up, if they bother you I will take them down. If on the other hand, he squirms and hesitates and doesn't want to take them down - refer to the 3 reasons above . . .
- Lovely - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
May be he hasn't gotten around to removing them.
- Carol - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
I would not like it and out of respect for me ask him to take them off.
If he is truly over her and happy to be with me he should not have a problem in doing this.
I would sit him down and discuss this with him and make him aware of how much this bothers you.
You will then know where he is honestly at in his mind with his ex by the way he reacts to you when asking him to remove the pic's from facebook.