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What can I say or do to win my girlfriends trust back? - Andrey - 11-09-2012 05:35 PM
So today my girlfriend became friends with me on facebook. Well I did not realize that on my wall were all the comments I made about another girls ass. She saw them and was really upset
she said she still loves me but has no trust in me and without tryst there is no relationship. I love her and am willing to fight to the end with her to make this work.
- Punjan - 11-09-2012 05:44 PM
1. Be honest about lying. Explain your reasons for lying, if you had any. This is essential.
2. Apologize. This is the most important step. Be sincere and specific in your apology. Acknowledge what you did wrong. The best way to say an apology is to say that you're sorry for what you did and how can you make it better.
3. Make a promise to yourself that you won't lie to her again - and don't! The only way you are going to ever get her trust back is to be honest. Remember - once burned, twice shy. This only depends on what happened.
4. Don't expect her to jump back to you. Don't be quick to say "I will never do it again" to her. After hurting her once, there's little chance that she will be convinced. You need to tell her that you don't expect her to trust you again, which goes hand-in-hand with acknowledging what you did wrong.
5. Gauge her reaction. Is she still giving you the cold shoulder? That's okay. She's been hurt. Eventually, she will warm back up to you.
6. Give her time and space but let her know you are still there. You've seriously hurt her feelings, and, depending on the severity of the lie, possibly damaged her trust beyond repair. Don't apologize and expect everything to go back to normal. Understand that she needs time to heal and eventually forgive you.
- Timothy - 11-09-2012 05:44 PM
love is a fake emotion. ask her for a threesome with one of the girls who has a nice ass. make a sex tape. send to me.
- thatoneguy - 11-09-2012 05:44 PM
explain and then apologize and hope and pray for forgiveness from her
- anonymous - 11-09-2012 05:44 PM
Awww! Just do something romantic. Us girls love that type of stuff. Remind her why she dated you in the first place. If you are bad at being romantic than I guess I would tell you to text her something sweet. Maybe something you once told her before you two started to date. Ask her to go out with you to dinner or lunch. Not the movies because that is a little to impersonal. At the dinner or lunch tell her if she takes you back that you will do WHATEVER it takes to gain her trust back. I know this may sound crazy but you might have to give her the password to your Facebook, twitter, and even phone. She may never actually use it but at least she will know that you have nothing to hide.