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My husband left me for another woman and she seems to want to be friendly with my daughter? Is that right? - Angel Heart - 11-09-2012 05:41 PM
My husband left home and now is living with a woman who seems to want to be friendly with my daughter who is 10 years old. My daughter has no idea and thinks this woman is just of a friend of her fathers. This lady has "friended" my daughter on facebook and always has a comment regarding my husband and how he thinks. Should I confront this woman?
- . - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
I would. She is sticking her huge nose into your business, and it doesn't belong there.
- AnswerDude - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
That is none of your business!
This should be between the father and the daughter ONLY! SO if the daughter says something about the "woman" you only need to say "Ask Your Father"!
Also remember that your relationship with your soon to be ex is none of your daughters business either! Don't dump a load of crap on her about her father! ! ! IF she ask you why or what her father is doing again your answer is "Ask Your Father" DON'T answer things that is HIS responsibility! ! !
- Jude - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
theres nothing u can do, i would tell my child the truth as she will find out anyway later on.
- SuzyQ - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
it's great for her to want to have a relationship with your daughter but as far as comments about your ex on facebook,that has to come to an end.tell her or at least tell your ex whats shes doing and to have him put a stop to it
- Lady M - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
It's not fair, but at least if your husbands with another woman, the woman is being nice to your daughter and not treating her badly. Doesn't make it feel any better, I'm sure.
- grammie - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
No first you talk to your ex? about this. And if he doesn't take charge of her, than your turn.
And if you are still married this women shouldn't be contacting your daughter at all. She could at least be considerate and wait until the divorce, But she wasn't being considerate to you when she had your husband move in with her!!
- appeal3 - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
NO!!!!!!!!!! If anything let your Husband handle all of this.. Treat this woman with kindness,.She is "your Husband" problem not yours.
- curvedjoke049 - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
if the woman's motives are to garner a relationship w/ his and your daughter, than personally i would stay out of it and let that be. if you confront her, you are going to come across as the bitter "ex".
as for the comments though, you should have a talk with your husband and have him tactfully ask her to lay off comments like that.
- No Special Agenda - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
Explain to the daughter who she is in your husband's life and what he has done. Let her decide if she feels ok with this contact and let the husband field any questions. That is if he is man enough......(seeing that he left you and shacks up with this other woman)