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Is my husband talking to an ex girlfriend sexually and saying he's gonna leave me & our kids cheating? - Vanessa - 11-09-2012 05:41 PM
37 weeks pregnant with 2 year old. Caught my husband chatting on facebook with a married and pregnant ex girlfriend. Conversation was very sexual and talked about him leaving me and our kids. He says he didn't cheat because he was never physical. What's your opinion? Thanks! Also what about porn and lying about looking at it?
- Wet-Wet. - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
that guys piece of crap. you obviously have the evidence, and if he'd say that to someone then he doesn't even deserve you. I don't care how much you love this guy, you deserve WAY better than that. Don't let him win, hes a loser.
- Christie Brucks - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
i personally of the mindset that cheating is cheating whether mental or physical. i wouldn't sweep it under the rug, especially if i hadn't dealt with it. what he said/did was completely inappropriate. you have every right to be upset and hurt, please allow yourself that. then you decide if you can forgive him. now, guys can make a mistake. one mistake. but this might be the behavior of a serial cheater. i would get therapy immediately.
- Gulab - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
Cheating... But that does not necessarily mean he is going to leave. Married guys don't take that step so easily. Perhaps he has his (unreasonable) reasons or had his vulnerable moments. Perhaps your relationship can still be saved. I am sorry that you had to go through this at this stage. Hope things will work out for you.
- andieoh - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
OMG You got yourself a real jerk. I feel very bad for you. After the baby is born I would seriously consider getting a divorce. Men like that never change and he will make your life miserable.
- P - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
Sorry to be blunt but he either has cheated or is thinking about it. He may not be leaving you but want his cake on the side.
- vichoo - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
These are all common in today's world.Internet chats have less significance provided it may not go beyond limits.Leave it then and there.That lady may be sharing with him mentally more than what you do.Find out what he needs from you.Be a part of all his activities. Make him more comfy sharing time with him than staying away from him and complaining.Even after that he gets addicted to such things,You must meet a counsellor to advice him.
- kimh - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
You husband just showed you,"who he is". Now, what are you going to do?
- June - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
If i was you i'd certainly be mad. He has the gall to say his leaving you . he is talking sexual with her.Why don't you tell him to leave you now. Tell him to go to his parents house ." Where ever". Tell him you want some time to your self. Who does he think he is.
If you don't want to leave then get in touch with this women and tell her to p@ss of. If she doesn't tell her husband.
- MissM - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
What does it matter if he watches porn if he doesn't even want you?