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Should i be worried if my girlfriend is trying to contact her ex? - Kenny - 11-09-2012 05:49 PM
She has not spoke to him in 4 years, all I've ever heard about him from conversations between her and her mother is how hot he is, now she is interested in contacting him on facebook. Two months ago she admitted to texting to another ex and trying to hide it from me. Im lost.
- Sheena Mehta - 11-09-2012 05:57 PM
see, anybody can contact anyone at any point of time. but, what you need to see and know the reason why is she doing that before you jump out on any conclusion ok
- Angela - 11-09-2012 05:57 PM
if its a new thing than yea i would say so. keep your eyes peeled O.O
- Tundra Rob - 11-09-2012 05:57 PM
Either she has earned your trust by now or she hasn't.
If she is trustworthy then what are you worried about?
Or if you can't trust her then why are you still with her?
- sj - 11-09-2012 05:57 PM
i wouldn't trust her . especially if she talks about him alot , and try's to talk to other ex's . i wouldn't trust her , i'd be really concerned if i was you .
- Sian - 11-09-2012 05:57 PM
Talk to her, ask her why she wants to contact him, and ask her if she is going to do it behind your back again.
Tell her that if she does it behind your back then it shows that she isnt just thinking of contacting him to be friends. ask her to explain this to you before she does so otherwise it might be time to think about making her an ex and moving on to find someone who wants you and not someone else they have been with.
- Amanda - 11-09-2012 05:57 PM
I would worry and ask her intentions and tell her how you feel in the most calm and communicative manner...not with anger.
- Alice Rowland - 11-09-2012 05:57 PM
without knowing the full story, it sounds like you have been going out for a while and maybe she just wants to find out what she missed out on by going out with you. I know that sounds bad but everyone secretly keeps tabs on their exs for a bit or even ages after in your case just to see how they are and stuff. If they went out in the first place it obviously means she liked him and you cant get angry at her for trying to refind a guy she liked. It may just be as a friend so you shoudlnt worry if you trust her. But you just need to make sure if they start getting really close that you express how you feel about it.
- Scorpion - 11-09-2012 05:57 PM
Hell yaaa