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Why does my boyfriend continue to do this? - kyle - 11-09-2012 06:22 PM
My boyfriend is a Facebook addict. It used to be ALOT worse but now that I have his password its not as bad. He tells girls he thinks they are beautiful and writes them, "hey" a million times until they write back and then goes and likes almost every picture they have. I'm sick of it, but I love him. What should I do?
- Hannah - 11-09-2012 06:30 PM
Confront him and tell him how it makes you feel! Don't hide your feelings, and if he can't accept that move on sweetie bc he's not good enough for you!!
- Abigail - 11-09-2012 06:30 PM
Confront him and tell him what the deal is. That is inappropriate! I definitely don't tolerate s*** like that in a relationship. If a man is going to be with me, he's gonna be with only ME. I don't do the whole my boyfriend watching porn thing or checking out women either and he knows that and he repsects it.
- dm - 11-09-2012 06:30 PM
Express your concerns to him.
If he truly wants to be your BF and values you over pictures of other girls, he would take your concern seriously and stop.
If he will not stop flirting, then he wants more than one girl
If he thinks your concerns are nothing to him or a joke, then it seems that is how he thinks of you.
- Myisha - 11-09-2012 06:30 PM
If he does the same thing to you or tell you those things...I he does he's a player
If he doesn't you need to break up with him because obviously he doesnt really care for you as much as you care for him.
- Alice - 11-09-2012 06:30 PM
Dump Him.
He Sounds Like A Dick.
- ziggy - 11-09-2012 06:30 PM
Like you put it, he is addicted to Facebook. And not just Facebook in general, but what sounds like flirting with every girl he can on there.
I think he needs to get help for his addiction, to get back to the level where he can be disciplined enough to have his own password. And it has to come mainly from his own self-discipline, not you watching over him, or at least mainly from his self-discipline.
Basically, he has a real flesh-and-blood girlfriend who he is neglecting in favour of a bunch of hyper-real interactions in cyberspace. I feel he has to 100% stop the Facebook flirting, otherwise I suggest you move on from him. Maybe he will change as he grows older but I don't think he sounds mature enough for taking care of the feelings of a real girl ATM.