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How do I stop getting jealous so easily? - Summer<3 - 11-09-2012 06:46 PM
I love my boyfriend so much and the thought of him talking to another girl makes me jealous :/
Sometimes I go on his facebook and when i see that he is talking to another girl, I think something's up. He spends all of his free time with me and he is amazing to me so I know that he really doesn't care about those girls. But I can't help but feel jealous or insecure sometimes. Advice? Do you get jealous in relationships?
- Brandon Szatowzki - 11-09-2012 06:55 PM
feel every 1 like your family, feel good for them I mean.
- Jim - 11-09-2012 06:55 PM
Well if he's anything like me, he's talking to other girls because he's just peeking on 'whats out there.' I cheated on my last girlfriend cause this one girl on facebook is like 'lets hang out' and next thing you knew we had sex.
Keep your eyes open. He just might give ya the pink slip!
- curvedhair142 - 11-09-2012 06:55 PM
Most jealous people seem to be jealous because they are doing something they think the other will not like and so you get jealous when you see hes doing the same. Meaning maybe not cheating but talking to someone at your work who you know likes you or whatever that you wouldnt want him to do.,Everyone wants to feel like they are irreplacable to the other and thats what makes you feel jealous
- mJc - 11-09-2012 06:55 PM
The fact that you feel jealous to me is partially an indication that you love this guy, but also that you're insecure. Don't roll your entire life up into what or what not this guy does. Become who you are meant to be - get a good education, develop frienships, volunteer, take on a part-time job, join a club (stuff that doesn't involve your bf). Once you become more confident those jealous feelings will vanish. Afterall, it's not just about you being lucky enough to be in love with him - he's a lucky guy to be in love with YOU!
- A.StaRh - 11-09-2012 06:55 PM
i dont get it you have everything from a boyfriend. like everything a boyfriend can give you and your still jealous ? i didnt get jealous when my boyfriend was talking to his ex on the other hand i did when he was flirting and ended it with him but i know he was flirting because he did hearts and ex's and texted her more then me and spent time with her not me
be lucky you have such a great guy and show him that sometimes because you dont find people like that nowadays, hold on too him ! turst him x
- c2a3j4u5n6 - 11-09-2012 06:55 PM
Pray to GOD. ask HIM for help with your problems. BELIEVE in HIM.
love is about trust. being jealous never helps anyone,
but it hurts you !
- J_P - 11-09-2012 06:55 PM
I think its normal to get jealous a lot of people do in your situation, but really just because you guys go out you can't have him ignore other people. You just need to be more positive and stop thinking about negative things, if hes really that great he wont cheat on you. Just put it this way if he would ever cheat on hes not worth your time, so just live on with a clear head!!!
- Farewell - 11-09-2012 06:55 PM
I think it all stems from your own insecurities. You really to boost your self confidence.
Here is a site that may help: http://zenhabits.net/25-killer-actions-to-boost-your-self-confidence/
You might pick up a few books on it as well.
I think it's normal to get jealous at times, but not for the reasons you've stated unless you really don't trust your bf. Good luck!