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I got an anonymous message on facebook concerning my boyfriend should i believe it? - Kaylie - 11-09-2012 07:10 PM
they said some crap about my boyfriend being a rapist, he will f* anything that moves and he is f* in another girl and she's pregnant
- Maroon - 11-09-2012 07:18 PM
check out yourself.
- Talliwa - 11-09-2012 07:18 PM
depends on the way it was said...
a) in an angry or very polite way- could be true the person is to ashamed and scared and just wants to warn you (scared to say who they are)
b)in a mocking or bitch tone- could be false (no one is stupid enough to go around doing stupid stuff and not hide themselves)
- Ashbeyo - 11-09-2012 07:18 PM
This is a strange one!
You can't get anonymous messages on facebook, for a start. Or was it through a second-party application? If so, you should still be able to track the sender down.
Mention it in passing to your boyfriend, like "Some freak sent me a stupid message about you, check it out, how random is this?!". Gauge his reaction.
- JJ - 11-09-2012 07:18 PM
Well the fact that you're on here wondering if it could be true probably means you have some doubts about your boyfriend in your mind already. The right way to handle it in a healthy relationship is to ask your boyfriend about it, if you don't believe his answers or second guess him in any way then move on quickly because the relationship is going no where and you might be dating a rapist.
Honestly though, the fact that you're on here entertaining the idea that he could be this person is not a good sign, even if it's not true.
- Jennifer - 11-09-2012 07:18 PM
i would look into in myself b/c there are way to find out what is really going on i do not think that everything that you read on facebook it for real but i do think that a lot of what you read on facebook is someone just tryen to piss someone off so i would say that you should just go with your gut feeling trust me that is never wrong
- ~SmarterThanYou~ - 11-09-2012 07:18 PM
Has he given you any signs that he is cheating on you? You can't always believe gossip, especially if it is from someone that hates you and is out to get you. But if that girl really is pregnant, then you may want to at least have your guard up about him. Does he act weird, like hang around other girls a lot or touch them a lot? If so there is a sign. If I were you I would probably snoop through his cell phone at calls coming and going and at text. See what he is saying and to who. Check his Facebook & myspace pages and see what's on there, like any post from other women. Do some investigation of your own!! I have done this plenty, trust me, they get caught everytime! Good Luck!
p.s. And remember, that baby can always have a paternity test done when it is born.