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Should I mail an ex girlfriend a Christmas card ? - Mark - 11-09-2012 07:52 PM
We broke up long time ago. Once in a while she would mail me a Christmas card. She is married now. We do not keep in contact with each other. We chat on Facebook (Just small talk) I went to see some friends back in '10. I called her mom's phone to see if it was alright to visit her on my way.
It was seven years since I saw my ex and her mother, It felt awkward.
- commanderstorm - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
send her a card, its christmas, be in the spirit of giving. its the right thing to do
i send cards to my enemies all the time
- David Duke - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
I would. Just because you are exes doesn't mean thing need to be awkward. It's a part of growing up, forgive and forget.
- oblacic kloudic - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
if you send her, it's not wrong, if you don't send her, it's not wrong either
i wouldn't sent, if i were you, because that would be just me. i am not the type of person who would bring up some old memories, and face it, if you send her a card, you will think of her a bit more, no reason for that, but again, completely up to you, both ways are acceptable
- Britney Wynter - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
Yes, I wpuld send her a card just to be nice, and in the Holiday spirit. When you write a message in the card, keep it cool and casual, like you are just friends. Good luck and Merry Christmas
- Jiza - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
NO WAY!!!
You say you haven't talked for a long time.
The most important of all, she is married, she has a husband.
Why would you want to ruin his Christmas?
If he would be bothered by your card, it could start a serious Christmas fight.
Marriages are hard enough, look at the divorce statistics.
Besides, if she were to send you a card and your wife found it?
It's just not right. Forget about her.