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Just met a Girl who has a boyfriend, Is it wrong to give it a go? - Ry - 11-09-2012 07:53 PM
Right, new girl started at work, she is very much my type and from only chatting with her a couple of times we have things in common... She has a boyfriend :/ the thing is looking at her facebook posts they are not getting on too well. Do you think it's a good idea to infiltrate myself into her life in the hope she will like me and leave her boyfriend?
- Logan Wolverine - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
Kill the bf with a spear, then take her.
- Hannah Bellefleur - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
I think you should be friends with her and not try to push her out of a relationship and into another one. That just seems like a bad start. If she's ready to break up with her boyfriend and move on with you, let her do it in her own time.
- Tina Greenen - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
No, it`s not a good idea. You can`t help it, if you like her, but she does have a boyfriend. It wouldn`t be right to try to push yourself in with her, while she is in a relationship.
Just wait and see what happens with her and her boyfriend. It could cause big trouble if you try to get involved at the moment. Hope this helps, good luck.
- Reagan - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
It's probably not the best idea but if you really think they are not going to last then maybe it is. but if I was you'd I'd be really careful about the way you infiltrateinto her life.
- Stu147 - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
Assuming that you wouldn't mind the same treatment if you were having troubles with a girlfriend? You'd be happy for her work colleague to try and break you two up? No, of course you wouldn't. There is your answer.
If this girl likes you and is interested in you then it is her responsibility to make herself available to you by ending her current relationship. Don't be a predator and prey on the misery of others. Have some more self respect perhaps. Don't get misled by comments made out of frustration on a web page. You have no idea of what is going on in their relationship, and perhaps this guy has been bending over backwards trying to make her happy.
Find someone single.
- Indestructible - 11-09-2012 08:01 PM
I am going to say this as cut and dry as possible. If you screw with a woman that is involved, you take the very REAL risk of that man coming to where you work and shooting at you and her and whoever else is there. You just don't do that... there are repercussions for your actions.