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Ladies, how would you feel if your boyfriend had a few pictures up of him and his ex girlfriend on facebook? - Lina S - 11-09-2012 08:58 PM
Ladies, how would you feel if your boyfriend had a few pictures up of him and his ex girlfriend on facebook? The guy i just started dating has 3 pix of him and his ex gf...in 2 pictures they are hugging....should i be worried? they been broken up for 3 months now.
- Jolie - 11-09-2012 09:06 PM
What would I care about some ex? He does have a past after all.
As long as he keeps his tool in his pants, I don't worry about such nonsense.
- Cuddles - 11-09-2012 09:06 PM
as long as they are just friends then it wouldnt bother me....my exes have pictures of us together and i have pics of us together and we are the best of friends and in different relationships..
trust is the key
- pepper_6328 - 11-09-2012 09:06 PM
Since you just started dating, I wouldn't think anything of it. If you guys get more serious and you ask him in a non- accusatory way to remove them, and he gets defensive, then maybe be worried.
- . - 11-09-2012 09:06 PM
I am 25 at least to me seeing pictures of his ex at all would be a big turnoff. and I tell him honestly, I don't like that picture, I'm asking you to remove it.
- Smiles - 11-09-2012 09:06 PM
Sometimes it can be uploaded by a friend so it would be weird to tell your friend or ex's frnd we broke up please remove pics (that happened to my high school friends and I was the one who told my friend to remove it for the three people's benefit). I don't think you should have anything to worry about. I read from Cosmo that it is better to have a boyfriend that gets alot with ex than a guy that doesn't get along with his ex.
- Soliel Dereon - 11-09-2012 09:06 PM
No lots of people still have it up. It's facebook. You probably haven't been apart of his life long enough for him to contemplate deleting them. I think he may have a few feelings still for his ex, but that usually disappears with time, and time with someone new. He is still with you at the moment which is a good sign. Don't let it bother you or act like it does. If time passes and he still has them up and it still bothers you casually ask him why he still has it up? Don't like the reason. Say it's not a big deal but it kinda weirds you out. Don't ask him to put up yours or take them down just give enough of a hint that you don't like it.
- Sushi - 11-09-2012 09:06 PM
if the r/ship was serious enough he would know better and rid of them himself..
if it's nothing but casual dating.. let it go !!
- M. Freedom - 11-09-2012 09:06 PM
i wouldnt like it but you just started going out, no you shouldnt worry, and it all depends on how he treats you.
- mmm - 11-09-2012 09:06 PM
she still thinks she has a chance with him and he won't take them down because of that . . .I would not be his boyfriend - he's not ready for a gf yet . . .