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My two friends are fight and my best friend side with one of them... what should i do? - laughs - 10-02-2012 07:08 PM
Okay, there is two friends of mine, I shall name them as A and Z... my best friend was siding with A and I don't know what should I do.... cause I didn't want to side any of them... A and Z n my best friend n others friends is always tgt at sch, we eat and do everything tgt... but after A and Z fight, our clique had separate into two.... and some of my friends in clique follow Z while my best friend side with A, I had no choice but to follow my best friend to side A... but I really dun wan to side... then Z start ignoring ppl and hate ppl who is siding with A, so I was kinda ignored and it hurts
if I am not with A, Z will still talk to me... but if I talk to A for like awhile, Z will ignore me afterwards.. when I talk to Z, A always looks angry n ignore me for a while... I really dun know wat I should do... its like taking a step in front is wrong, moving back a step is also wrong...until Z n her friends(friends who side Z) start bad-mouthing A at twitter..... But A didn't not badmouth them as me n my best friend tell A to tolerate it and ignore them because it makes us no different if we bad mouth them also....but things start to change... I feel like A is like using me,because when my best friend( who side with A) went home n only left me n A in school, A will then only come and find me.... but for the rest of the time in school, A just stick with my best friend.... I feel like A is using me... I think tat I have lost a bit of trust n care for A n Z.... sorry for being so long-winded.. pls pls help me to get out of this! THANKS! 
- Arjun - 10-02-2012 07:16 PM
You should stay away from it
- Casey - 10-02-2012 07:16 PM
Simply do not side with either of them. Explain to both sides that you do not want to have to choose between your friends, and if they don't respect that then they arent worth your friendship. Once you have told them, make sure to spend time with both sides
- David - 10-02-2012 07:16 PM
when ever i had a problem liked this id talk to both of them at the same time so everyone is in the loop....
- Grace - 10-02-2012 07:16 PM
Tell both of them u don't want them 2 fight. Help them to resolve their fight. Then u can b frnds wid both
- VillainD - 10-02-2012 07:16 PM
I agree