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How do I get some privacy!? - Bridget - 11-09-2012 09:12 PM
I have absolutely NO privacy with my mom! She must know everything about my life! I basically get interogated before I leave/when I come home, and she MAKES me tell her the password to my twitter and facebook so she can go on them and read what me and my friends are saying! I have done nothing to lose her trust! How do I get some privacy!? I'm desperate!
- luna - 11-09-2012 09:21 PM
fight it gentally and she just a little over prtevtive beacuase she still thinks your her little bay when your really grown up a lot let her relize maybe she is overdoing it gradually and maybe tell her it bothers you because your not five and don't need her consent eye
- Jessica - 11-09-2012 09:21 PM
Make a new facebook, and don't tell her. Keep the password to yourself, and tell your friends how to find you. Keep updating the old facebook so that it looks like you're still using it.
Or, you could take the longer route and come up with a code that only your friends know. When your mother asks, say, "I don't know." Then come up with an excuse to leave the room.
- Molly - 11-09-2012 09:21 PM
Talk to her about it. My mom tried to make me tell her my passwords, but I just simply said no. She tried to take away my computer privileges, but I just held my ground. I said if she wanted to be informed, then ask for the information instead of just take it. She's now my friend on all of my sites so that she can monitor but let me have my privacy. I told her that she has to let me live my own life and let me make my own mistakes. Just recently she found out I had sex with my boyfriend, so I told her "Yes, I did do something 'bad' but it's not like I was completely careless. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and we did use a condom." She was disappointed, and mad that she had to hear it from someone else, but I told her she wasn't the easiest person to talk to. So just keep the lines open and talk to her one on one a lot, it will help.
- Max - 11-09-2012 09:21 PM
well, you have a few options; you can ask her what happened to make her lose all trust in you, and work off of that, or you can try to make more trust, or even if you don't like option 1 or 2, you don't necessarily have to tell her EVERYTHING, if you catch my drift, and you could make new twitters and facebook accounts,.
- alexander w - 11-09-2012 09:21 PM
.Depends Bridget how old you are.One thing for sure no one one the planet loves you more than mom.She wants to be your guardian angel.Trust her she might be inquisitive but she means well