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My boyfriend is cheating on me what to do? - Kaela - 11-09-2012 09:32 PM
K, so my boyfriend on facebook tagged 3 other girls of hot, cute and more like stuff that u know means he's cheating on me!!! How do I break up with him?
- finestambiguity - 11-09-2012 09:40 PM
"Goodbye." Is this a serious question?
- Maggie - 11-09-2012 09:40 PM
You don't know for sure. Talk to him about it. Big sign of lying: he looks up and to the left when answering. Guys look up and to the RIGHT when remembering a fact.
- Saphire - 11-09-2012 09:40 PM
GIRRRRL! your worth more than that, fo real you need a man thats gonna tag YOU as all of those. Just tell him that hes not the one for you, it might be hard, but what are you missing out on? He is an asshole. c'mon now ladies dont let men treat you like that.
If you aint happy, let em' go!
- bubbleee lovee(: - 11-09-2012 09:40 PM
wow really you seriously think he is cheating on you by taggin girls as hot and cute and stuff no he is BEING A GUY!! they all do that...just talk to him and say i feel uncomfortable that you tagged those girls in those photos just tlk to him about it...
- ashton - 11-09-2012 09:40 PM
Really? When a guy tags three girls with those comments it means that he's cheating on you? Doesn't sound like you have a lot of faith in your relationship. Oh well, if you want to break up with him that bad then just tell him. I mean, he's obviously cheating on you so that should be reason enough.
- xxCASSxx - 11-09-2012 09:40 PM
First of all confront him! Explain to him that either he's just so dumb that he doesn't know better than to flirt with other girls publicly, or that he's just a bad boyfriend! If he shows no remorse, dump him! Make sure that he realize what he is missing, because i'm sure your a great girl! Best of luck!
- Bob - 11-09-2012 09:40 PM
how is that cheating. hes giving his opinion about how somebody looks
- Ayoub - 11-09-2012 09:40 PM
Its tough, I know it. I have had this problem myself, I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me for 3 months without even having a clue, it is thanks to a friend of mine who linked me to a guide that I found out, otherwise I would of never found out!
If you want to find out if your boyfriend is cheating, go here: http://yourgoodman.com/bfcheating.html
- Amy - 11-09-2012 09:40 PM
Last week I made this list of possible signs that your boyfriend is cheating:
Signs that someone is cheating:
- Suddenly acting vain or conceited because the girl he just slept with really stroked his ego.
- Acting indifferent towards you.
- Not answering his phone around you.
- Canceling plans with you.
- Dressing differently.
- Getting defensive or acting guilty if you ask him if he's been cheating.
- Acting guilty or crying at unusual times.
- Always getting home late.
- Scratch marks on their back.
- Text messages from new people.
- Late night calls.
- Always answering the phone away from you.
- "Staying at work" later and later
- Saying they are too tired to have sex
- Making jokes that he's cheating or accusing you of cheating
- They seem disinterested in you or only want you around when they need something
- Taking a shower when coming home.
- Things like random cigarettes or pony tail holders showing up in your rooms.
- Unusual perfume smells on the bed sheets.
In the future, do a thorough search of the apartment you will share together after you move in together.
Save this list, print it, add things to it, pass it on to your friends, and check it every time you suspect that your boyfriend might be cheating. Trust me, you should check it every time, it will help your mind organize your thoughts more quickly.
If your boyfriend has cheated, break up with him. A cheater really cheats himself, because he doesn't get to keep you.