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How to start a new life? - Depressed - 11-09-2012 09:41 PM
I'm talking about new friends, new style, new me. My friends never want to hang out with me at all, I'll ask them and they make up some bullshit excuse and I see on FaceBook they do something with someone else. Tired of being left out of everything. I'm also tired of a stupid reputation from high school that won't go away. Should I just move to another city? I'm broke and have no job though. Help?
- Candiceâ„¢ - 11-09-2012 09:49 PM
Hi well here are 4 starters to help u on the road to a more POSITIVE image Cheers ♥
1. Be self-aware and develop a positive self-image
When you trust yourself, are self-aware and can frame yourself in positive terms, your confidence soars
2. Take confidence cues from people you admire
You need to fake it ’til you make it! Consider the way a confident person behaves—observe a friend, relative or colleague
3. Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses
If you have a realistic understanding of your own strengths (we all have our strengths) and apply that to your most important and meaningful goals, you have a powerful tool with which to build self-confidence.
4. Beware of barriers to achieving your objectives
If frustrating obstacles or negative feedback cross your path, don’t give up! Developing confidence takes a little persistence. Set realistic expectations: those lacking self-confidence often see an everyday barrier as a signal to throw in the towel. For example, if adult and you’re returning to the social rounds after a divorce, don’t expect to be the life of the party right away—this unrealistic expectation puts too much pressure on you. A good party strategy is to give other guests your full attention. This not only shifts your focus away from thoughts like ‘this is a disaster’, but also makes people around you feel wonderful—a two-way confidence booster!
Same as if you WANT TO BE MORE POPULAR AT SCHOOL then BE INVOLVED in school team activities like via sport, drama, debating classes, in other words being active not only helps makes you popular as long as your not arrogant this also helps stop you from being bullied.
Now go, let others see your no shrinking violet YES!!…… Candice ♥