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How can I tell my friend without her getting angry? - Aly - 11-09-2012 09:43 PM
My friend and her boyfriend of 2 months have recently taken the next step in their relationship and started having sex. I know this isn't any of my business, but she's been announcing it at school and on facebook. She lost 50 pounds over the summer has a great self esteem now, and this is her first boyfriend (she's 17). I really don't want to hurt her but she's becoming a slut. How can I tell her this but not hurt her?
- Matthew Phillips - 11-09-2012 09:51 PM
The best thing you can do is to stay out of it. Like you said, it's none of your business, if she's becoming a "slut" let her. If it becomes very serious, maybe say something then.
- Elle - 11-09-2012 09:51 PM
You're supposed to be a slut with your boyfriend.
- nickiw1992 - 11-09-2012 09:51 PM
Just be honest with her. She shouldn't be posting stuff like that on-line because it always backfires. At first, she might be upset but eventually she'll understand that you did the right thing. I'd just ask her: What do you think people think of you when you post stuff like that on-line?
- Necronometer - 11-09-2012 09:51 PM
Define "slut." Is she sleeping around with everyone in the school behind her boyfriend's back? If so, then she's becoming a slut.
But I do think that she's being immature about having sex for the first time. You might want to gently remind her that while it's great that she lost weight and has a new boyfriend, there are certain things that should be kept private in order to keep them special.
- samy - 11-09-2012 09:51 PM
i wud go wid Necronometer
shez being very immature,at least you can ask her to stop doing that, and stop posting such things on FB!
- Ilike Cookies - 11-09-2012 09:51 PM
Ask her why shes telling everyone else about what her and her boyfriend do. Maybe(!!!!) just make a little fib and say some people are talking about her saying shes a slut and that its because shes telling everyone it. and at the end say "Well i was just letting you know because i didnt think it was right of them to say it." If she asks who either say you forgot and heard it when you were walking past a room at school and heard someone talking about it. Or just say someone at school.
Good luck!
- Mary - 11-09-2012 09:51 PM
talk to her, i wouldn't call her a slut i mean unless she sleeping w/multiple people
but you may want to talk about the image she projecting or that she maybe sharing too much
try not to attack her when you talk but tell her your concerned,happy for her,not jealous
but somethings are sacred and should be kept that way..