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Is it normal to be friends with your husbands exgirlfriend? - silvia - 11-09-2012 09:47 PM
No I don't wanna be her friend. Just that all of our friends still talk to her and when ever there's parties or anything I don't wanna talk to her. But I also don't wanna show her Im afraid of her. I wanna be careless about her Which is exactly how I feel. Like for example on Facebook all my friends have her on Facebook and I wanna block her so she doesn't see my profile?!
- death - 11-09-2012 09:55 PM
Just be civil and mature around her, it doesn't mean you need to be her friend
- ***? - 11-09-2012 09:55 PM
It sounds like she doesn't even want to be your friend, and it sounds like you are jealous of her. ..Maybe not a lot, but just a little bit.
- Renee - 11-09-2012 09:55 PM
just be civil with her and keep it cool around her
- Melinda Sue Fritz - 11-09-2012 09:55 PM
hell no
- urbangirl - 11-09-2012 09:55 PM
Why would you care? she is the ex-girlfriend
You are the WIFE! he is with you.
Be mature and move on.
- madmectec - 11-09-2012 09:55 PM
I was married twice. My first wife was manic depressive and obsessive compulsive and a hoarder. She was a complete pig.
When I met my late wife my ex had tried to sabotage my relationship with her.
My late wife met her one day at a birthday party for my daughter. I had custody back then. My wife whispered to me during the party "I can take her. She's not so tough looking to me"
Meeting your husband's ex is a good idea. You don't have to become friends. You are like my late wife put it, "marking your territory". We men do that too.
You Want to show the ex that you are better than she is and better for your husband than she was. That is why he married you.
There does not have to be a "cat fight".
Although we men like to watch one. LOL
When my wife passed away my ex came and offered me her condolences and help with our son. I have a 15 year old with my late wife.
My ex and I had 2 children. A boy and a girl who are now grown. They proved one thing to their mother. That my late wife was a better mother and friend and role model for them. That made me proud.