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Need to get on my Ex girlfriends Facebook but its on private? - EGR - 11-09-2012 10:17 PM
She deleted me after the break up due to alot of our arguments revolve around facebook & the inappropriate comments we both receive. We have a slight chance of getting back together in the future but i cant see if i can trust her, i want to know what shes up to on there, the photographs shes in & who! There must be a way!? A free, pricess way.
- Quixotic - 11-09-2012 10:25 PM
Stop being neurotic. You won't win her back that way.
- Franklin Bluth - 11-09-2012 10:25 PM
Dude if you're deleted on facebook and she won't accept your friend request there is NO chance you'll be getting back together in the future. There's also no way to hack into facebook pages with the intelligence level you obviously possess.
- Hoppelemine - 11-09-2012 10:25 PM
If you feel you have to see her facebook page then that means you don't trust her and you've answered your own question.
- wittyjail659 - 11-09-2012 10:25 PM
She needs to stay away from you as you sound possesive and nuts.
Learn to love yourself more dude.
Chill out.
- sunshinee. - 11-09-2012 10:25 PM
Have any close mutual friends? Ask one of them if you can sign on their account -- see what she's up to. A lot of people don't trust others with their passwords so who knows if they'll let you....You could ask a mutual friend if you could sign on their account to take a peak, that they can change their password immediately after you're done.
But here's the thing...If you still aren't even friends on Facebook, there's a reason why. If you want to see what she's up to, request her friendship again. If she doesn't accept, you may want to cut your losses. The fact of the matter is, you are no longer together, so she has every right to go out with friends, etc. and do what she wants. Same goes for you.
If you want to gain trust in a relationship, do so in a mature way. Communicate with one another, be open. Nothing is going to progress if it's based on sneaking around to check up on each other online. This is a clear sign that the trust has already been broken.