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Helpful ways to get over and accept the fact that you and the father of both your kids, are completely done.? - T - 11-10-2012 01:05 AM
I am 35 weeks pregnant and we broke up 2 days ago. We also have a 3 year old together. He has already moved out and everything at home reminds me of him.!! I am constantly checking his Facebook and wanting to text him and talk what do I do.?
- C - 11-10-2012 01:14 AM
If you really want it to be over, block him on fb so you can't go look when you get tempted. Don't throw away any pictures but pack the ones that he is In and put them somewhere out of sight that way you won't pass them on the daily. Get rid of all his things that he's left, after giving him a chance to claim them in a timely manner. Visit your friends a lot and spend lots of time with your son to keep your mind busy.also pamper yourself, buy yourself a cute outfit get your nails done. Get a new hairstyle etc.. If you do however want it to work out and believe ya'll can make it which I strongly suggest you do for your kids, ask him to go to counceling with you, take it slow, don't allow him to move right back in if ya'll fecide to get back together. Go out to dinner just you too and recindle ya'lls love. Watch a romantic movie, talk about things that you've stoped talking about. Talk about how ya'll two met, and remind yourselves why ya'll fell in love. Go to church it helps!! (Believe me) good luck, I hope things work out best!! You will be in my prayers, I've been through this too, and I know its hard especially when children are involved.
- b - 11-10-2012 01:14 AM
Well, it seems like you still care for him. If you still love him, try to patch it up for y'all's and your kids sake. If you don't feel like you can make up, then try and cleanse your house of these things and fill them with new things. Do new things in your life, and just be single and a mom for a while before you date again. Maybe just focus on your children until you're comfortable being with someone else.