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How can I get over thinking of my ex boyfriend!!!!!!? - Jesenta - 11-22-2012 05:00 AM
Me and my ex broke up a few months ago and i was 100% sure that he loved me and way more than I did, and betraying me was the last thing I could ever imagine coz I trusted him deeply. But in the last few days before breaking up with him we were fighting even for silly things, and he was and still blaming me for all what happened when I talked to him before 2 weeks. He told me that he has a new girl and he likes her. Then I told him dont try to text me anymore just becoz your having problems with your new girlfriend, and your private life belongs to you only NOT ME. And since then he didnt text me anymore can you tell me what do you think please I would appreciate any help.
- Soul Prophet - 11-22-2012 05:08 AM
the very first thing u need to do is let go of hope of this working out. its clear that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. you need this space in order to get over him, i know you care about him but you cant have him in your life and move on at the same time. give yourself 30 days of no contact, ideally 90 days. talking to your ex boyfriend will not help you get over him whatsoever. in fact, it'll only make things worse. checking up on him on Facebook and twitter is simply self-torture. stop doing it. block him on Facebook so you cant follow him, remove him from your news feed, do the same on twitter and any other places that remind you of him.
in the meantime, focus on the bad things about him and all the reasons that you dont want to be with him anymore. this will reaffirm the fact that hes not right for you and make it easier to move on. it will reaffirm the fact that hes not the person you want to be in a relationship with. this may not feel natural at first but it will stop you from sulking and moping about the loss.
these are just a couple tips that i think will help you. check my source and you'll learn more on how to get over an ex. hope this helps