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Im in love with a girl 3 years younger than me. What should i do? - tiffonn - 12-05-2012 08:56 AM
We met in a bus(i had never met or seen her in life before) when i was going to college for the week(in another city) and she was tweeting in twitter that she is sitting behind me. So we met and next week we were also on the same bus and we got tickets that got us sitting together. We had such a fun and good time and i have never had a chemistry like that with a girl. Im 20 and she is 17, btw.
She did all the things that made me think that she may be interested - touching, talking, joking, playfully hitting, teasing. I did those things too, cause i am a very funny person. And she expressed the desire to ride in the same bus again.
Is it even possible to develop feelings for her this soon?
- SlightlyDusty - 12-05-2012 09:04 AM
Why not I did
- mel23 - 12-05-2012 09:04 AM
Wow 3 yrs. it's nothing. 30-33. 40-43... Go for it but wait til she's 18 to get serious
- Mary - 12-05-2012 09:04 AM
ask her out
- Thom - 12-05-2012 09:04 AM
Love works in mysterious ways. I do not think the age gap is that big of a deal, if she is mature enough then I'm sure it's ok as long as you move forward at her pace.
- Jens - 12-05-2012 09:04 AM
3 years is nothing. Ask her out, but don't fuck her till she's legal.
- Zaynab - 12-05-2012 09:04 AM
Of course it is! If you really have feelings for her, then you just do. If you've never experienced this with anyone before, maybe she's THE ONE!!! Also, 3 years is not such a great gap and it definetely seems like she's also into you, so why not express your feelings soon, and you never know, in a few years, there could be wedding bells at the end of the road!!
- Jennifer - 12-05-2012 09:04 AM
NO NO NO NO NO
You have nothing in common. Your age difference is too great. Texting is not a conversation or a relationship.
Flirting is nice. Passing time on a boring bus ride is nice.
This isn't love. It isn't even chemistry. It's a pleasant coincidence and is unrepeatable. A mysterious girl who giggles and laughs is not the same girl who gets off that bus and goes on with her real life. It's fun to be a mystery girl, but she hasn't shown any interest in seeing YOU again, just that she had a nice bus ride.
You're dreaming. This isn't real attraction.
- MizzTee - 12-05-2012 09:04 AM
I say card her to ensure her age. Statutory rape is no joke, and her lying is NOT a defense. If everything is on the up and up, then go for it. Yes, it is possible to have some sort of feelings, but it may be more of an attraction. Get her age, then take it a little further to actually get to know her to see if those feelings are real.
- Jessica - 12-05-2012 09:04 AM
My guy is 2 and 1/2 years older than me. He doesn't like our age difference because it seems to important right now but he told me he will wait for me.
Age doesn't really matter.Remember: Love is not hormones, just feelings, selfish or just wanting some one else's body. Love is a choice not just fuzz in your heart.
Love is not found, it is built.