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Help! Especially from the guys!? - Brinley - 12-05-2012 07:42 PM

There is this cute kid in my class and we ended up sitting by each other. He is so talkative and he would talk to me an the group a lot. He is cute Wink then we went to a teacher meeting that night and he was all like hey Brinley! And I said hey back. But as we were walking in to the school my mom said he double took me?!? Idk if it was good or bad. Then a couple days later his feet would start to touch my feet and he would just keep them there then he would play with my boots..... It was cute hahaha. Final thing we were doing an experiment and had I go sit at he front of the class and I was waiting for a friend but she ditched me and so I just sat down and I was kind I close to this other kid. And so cutie came and sat down right in between me and the other boy. But then a week later our seats got moved and we barely talk. I am not the prettiest person Alive but he is amazing and idk of he likes me or not? What should I do to talk to him more or get his attention more? Like we don't talk at all anymore. And it's scary. Also I feel like he might have just been being nice and not flirting. Guys I need help here! How would u take this? Also what should I do to talk to him and not make him feel uncomfortable or bored?


- Timothy Stebnicki - 12-05-2012 07:50 PM

Seems like he's just shy, he likes you and if you want to get close to him you'll have to take the initiative. Make sure you don't push too hard and keep it nonchalant, and make sure you look sure of yourself.


- Sam - 12-05-2012 07:50 PM

My impression of this guy is that they're either making a move on you OR just someone who is a very touchy-feely friend. However, if all he wanted was friendship he would more than likely talk to you frequently and not play footsie with you like you say he does. If I was this guy, and I know from experience, I'd wait for some kind of friendly response like a facebook friend request or something similar. From there, he could talk to you not face to face and some guys feel more comfortable starting out that way and I know this as a guy with that 'problem'. Contrary to popular belief, guys don't always like to make the first move on girls and wait for the right moment, or for them to take the next step so perhaps you should try to talk to him online. You should probably start with a friendly greeting, "Hey!Smile" and the situation should unfold from there. Small talk can get you going on a good foot. If he likes you, the interaction shouldn't bore him though he may feel awkward or uneasy to begin with which is as far as I'm concerned, normal.