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Does anyone have any advice on how to get over a girl? - Michaelâ„¢ - 12-08-2012 02:43 AM
who doesn't like me back? I like her a lot, I may actually be in lo.. yes
But she doesn't even like me, in fact I think she likes someone else. She's pretty much shot me down when I ask her out, although she does like talking to me. We live very far apart, almost 95 miles. It's becoming increasingly clear to me we'll probably never be together, but I can't help thinking about her, I can't sleep, I don't want to eat, I feel sad when I see her picture on facebook now.
My friends have all told me to forget her, my family too. But I can't. What can I do? Will time heal my heart? I'm 28 btw.
Thanks everyone.
@Lila - I have told her, she didn't know what to say. We've been talking for about a month now, and flirting a bit. But now, she denies ever flirting with me, she says I took it wrong, and she's making excuses for why she called me all those cutesy names and stuff.
The weird thing is we were set up by her best friend, who is my best friend Nate's GF. They set us up thinking we'd maybe go out, but I don't see it happening. I guess I have to get over her, but it's going to be very hard. I don't get many chances with girls, and I rarely have the guts to tell them I like them.
- SBL - 12-08-2012 02:51 AM
You'll get over her. She doesn't like you....so yeah end of story, so find someone who wants to be with you and loves everything you are. Mutual feelings are essential.
She probably sees you as a friend.
- Kimberly - 12-08-2012 02:51 AM
Okayy I'm sorry that really sucks but look at ot this way, we have all been through rejection but that is just part of life. We have ALL ben heartbroken but only time can heal the wounds. Don't talk to her at all because it'll make you miss her. Also do things that will keep you busy even if you don't want to. It'll only help you in the end, promise! Go do something that will make you feel better about yourself such as new clothes, haircut, working out? Just do something! Anywayy Good luck!
- Shawna - 12-08-2012 02:51 AM
First what i would do is actually talk to her and ask if she likes you and tell her how you feel about her... if she rejects you then i hate to say it but delete her... it will be better for you and you will be able to move on... if you dont your always going to wonder and be waiting for her... by then someone better may come along...
But i agree with everyone else just forget her and only in time will it heal...
But keep your head up and keep moving forward
- Lila - 12-08-2012 02:51 AM
This may sound stupid to you, but talk to her about how you feel. I know, you're yelling at this crappy answer, but I'm being honest. You can't be sure that she doesn't like you, and you don't want to live the rest of your life not knowing. Girls like when boys are honest about their feelings, and even if she doesn't like you, she'll be appreciative about your honesty. If she still rejects you, it'll be easier to get over her. She wouldn't deserve you at that point.
What do you say? You, my friend, are in LOVE! It's time to admit it- to yourself, and her. Be as honest as possible, and don't give up without trying. You do NOT want to just forget about this girl! If she isn't as equally honest in return, she isn't worth it. You sound like a great guy, and if it doesn't work out with her, there will be somebody else. Go talk to her now! You have nothing to lose, and you won't regret it!
- hissinghorse883 - 12-08-2012 02:51 AM
I'm gay Michael. You would hate my advice
- Spandey ® - 12-08-2012 02:51 AM
Do it the way this guy did it http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45v93W9o7lc&list=PL8BCE9C015A0BD0F7&index=28&feature=plpp_video