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should i remain friends with her? - Abel - 12-08-2012 07:22 PM
I had a misunderstanding with a friend, we both liked eachother, she told me to forget everything between us, seriously its old news and move the hell on, told me were not close friends and to stop bugging her. I called her names but didn't cuss nor call her the b word but I called a rude and cruel person but later apologized and told her i still have feeelings for her despite all that went down between us but told her to never mind it that i just wanna be friends (on the same day) and anything more than friends i dont want.
She was on holidays and I haven't seen her in 6 months. I saw her 2months, she was on phone but she smiled and waved at me but I looked at her, gave her the you piece of **** look and walked pass her. I sent her a text message and apologized.
I saw her last month. She smiled at me and almost walked pass me , I was in a hurry to get the bus, so I may have looked conceited coz it was such a quick apology.
I said "hey"
she replied "whats up" with a smile
Me: sorry for the other day k?
She paused for a second and pretended like nothing happened and replied "oh Its no problem"
Me: okay see you.
Its was her birthday Last Friday. She blocked me on facebook before the arguement but later unblocked me and is yet to add me back. I sent her a simple "Happy Birthday!!" message on facebook. She didn't say thanks nor reply.
I sent her this msg on friday: hey, hope you are good, you are still pissed off
I'll call you tomorrow to say helloI called on saturday 05:10pm(it was dark outside) she picked up the phone I said "hello is this (her name)?"and she said "yeah" I said "hey its (my name)" and she replied "hi" but the call was disconnected. I thought i was the one who disconnected it. I redialed her number straight away and her mobile was switched off. 6 minutes later I got a message from her saying"Bat died, makin dinner cant talk."
Should we remain friends?
- Sugar Coat - 12-08-2012 07:30 PM
It looks like you're the one being mean to her, idk but she looks like a cool girl, why did you fight anyway? oh well it doesn't matter, if you really want to remain friends, call her and try to make it up to her, if she doesn't want to be your friend anymore you'll know it, and you'll have to move on
- Tabitha - 12-08-2012 07:30 PM
You need to make a decision! You like her you hate you wanna be friends you hate you apologize then ignore her. Just try and be constant. Make up your mind. If you want to be friends then smile, say hi when you pass by and occasionally text her. Stop being a jerk or else she'll think you're fickle about her.