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I just found out my highschool crush is a slut? - Fred - 12-09-2012 01:51 PM
Okay so when I was a senior in high school (I was 18, she was 16 or 17) I had a crush on this girl.
That was over 2 years ago now, now I am 20, and she would be 18 or 19. Even though I don't see her anymore I had her on my mind from time to time within these last few years. She was so innocent and cute looking in highschool.
Now I recently visited her facebook page (I have before but it didnt show much since were not friends) and her photos were now available for anyone to see, since I couldn't before.
So I was looking through them (thinking of masterbating to them) but then I see albums of her getting drunk, doing drugs, smoking pipes and stuff, kissing random guys and girls, and just overall ugly stuff. She looks like a total slut now
This is a shock to me and I don't know what I should do. Is this behaviour normal for whores this age? I don't know how to react, she was the girl of my dreams now I hate her. How do I forgot about her?
Some of the photos dates back to 2010 when we were both still in highschool, meaning she was also a slut then when she looked innocent, instead of transforming into a slut over the last 2 years. This is what shocks me
There was even a photo of her kissing her little brother. How messed up is that?
- Patrick - 12-09-2012 01:59 PM
So you were "thinking of masturbating" while looking at her pictures.
I think your behavior is not normal.
Who are you to judge someone else when you have major problems yourself.
- Valy - 12-09-2012 01:59 PM
Um, you stalk her profile for two years with the intention of masturbating?
Reality check here?!
Look pal, she might be exaggerating, but she's doing stuff with her best intentions: getting experience.
It is normal for her age, as both girls and lads are curious as to what life may bring them. They like the sense of adventure and rebelliousness.
Give this girl a break. Just because she has compromising photos doesn't mean she's a "slut" or a "whore". Sure, she might ACT slutty, but she might be a really nice person with a sweet personality, and do this stuff only when she's drunk (and at that age, it's perfectly normal to be!).
You're obviously not mature enough to handle the fact that nineteen year old girls want to taste the forbidden, so for both of your sake, either forget her, or talk to her and respect her for who she is.
If she was "the girl of your dreams", then grow a pair and talk to her in real life. You can't just go from admiration to "now I hate her" overnight!
- WRECK MASTER - 12-09-2012 01:59 PM
From what U have described in paragraph 4, it doesn't make her a slut. All because her image that U remember from a few years ago bothers U then maybe U should look past at what U see. There is still good thoughts in your mind of her and for U to hate her for her behavior now is childish on your part. Just face it, everyone moves on from HS. U obviously have issues if U were going to masturbate to her pictures, no wonder she has moved on without U. Looks like a slut and being a slut are 2 different things, U need 2 learn the difference.
- Hannah - 12-09-2012 01:59 PM
Your reaction is normal, her behavior is not.