+- Twitist Forums (http://twitist.com)
+-- Forum: Twitter forums (/forum-1.html)
+--- Forum: Twitter General help (/forum-6.html)
+--- Thread: He is OBSESSED with me!! What do I do? (/thread-4987.html)
He is OBSESSED with me!! What do I do? - Georgia M - 10-03-2012 04:41 PM
Ok, I am really creeped out now by a boy that I go to CCF (cadets) with...
It started after a camp this year. This guy (i'll use the name Sam in this) started talking to me over facebook and commenting on all my statuses and photos and 'liking' them. I thought this was a bit odd but he told me that he fancied me and said 'Your the girl of my dreams but, your two years older than me. Im so confused.'
That was really weird.. I tried to ignore him a bit after that but he still tried to talk to me. Then, earlier today, I casually searched my full name into google to see what would come up and I found a twitter page saying '*my full name* lover' I will post this here but I was just worried that he would find it and be angry, I hope not because he has strangled people before and although he's only 14 and i'm 16 and i'm taller than him I think he has some anger issues.. Anyway, here's the link (please don't go searching me up, i couldn't edit my name out because I don't know how you post pictures in a question on here)
https://twitter.com/#!/G_Millis
It is really pretty disturbing.. Aswell as this, one of the photos he has posted asking for people's opinions is a photo of someone that I (and he) knows.
What can I do about this?? Whenever I think about him now it sends chills down my spine. He is completely obsessed with me and I don't know what I can do! Please help!!!
Much appreciated! :O x
Ok, thank you both
I was going to show my parents tomorrow. Luckily, I don't see him in person other than on camps anymore because I can't attend CCF each week due to college.Thank you
Luckily I have left that school now so I will rarely see him in person
- flying carpet - 10-03-2012 04:49 PM
Report him to the websites and block him.Hes clearly unbalanced.If he continues tell the police and tell his parents what hes doing.They should know about this.
- Ben - 10-03-2012 04:49 PM
Maybe visit a phyciastrist (shrink) for help, and if it escalates out of hand, you may want to think about getting a restraining order
- Tati-Ahna - 10-03-2012 04:49 PM
You need to talk to your parents about this right away! He is unbalanced and you need adults to help you with this situation before it goes any further. Also speak to school administrators about his stalking you, a restraining order may be needed.
- Lawrence - 10-03-2012 04:49 PM
You are right: he is obsessed with you, and the only way to get him to stop is snap him out of his dreamland. What he is doing is a form of cyber-bullying, and in many places that is against the law. He can be legally punished (jail).
Try to be reasonable first. Text or tweet him and let him know that you do not like him and tell him that he has to stop. Also, contact his parents and tell them that he is cyber-stalking you, and that you are getting scared. Chances are they don't know that he is doing it. But they are responsible for his behavior, and they should know that he is becoming dangerous.
If none of these things work, talk to the police. Cyber-stalking is a crime, and he can be punished for this with jail-time.
Hang in there!