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How to get to know a shy boy ? (10 pnts)? - Ieva Bugenyte - 12-11-2012 08:18 PM
How to get to know a guy if u dont know him that well , i only texted him once on facebook he seemed really nice and he even said he liked my pictures, and i talked to him at school at few times and he seemed really easy going , i asked my friend about him and she said that hes the kind of person that talks to everyone , the question is how to get to know him better and not seem annoying ? How to know whetver he likes u or not ? And finally how to become close friends with him or even something more ? Any mind tricks for him to want to be friends ?Thanks , serious answers only please :-) off u go !
- Arѕerapтor - 12-11-2012 08:26 PM
He's probably shy because you are way too ugly for him
- Joel - 12-11-2012 08:26 PM
Alright shy people may not talk to you or may be quiet but this doesn't mean we don't enjoy your company or that we're annoyed by it. He probably likes hanging out with you and just can't think of what to say to you so the best thing to do is to invite him to things make hi feel welcome or ask him if you can hangout with him. If you want as him about what he likes don't pretend that your into it if your not but instead try to understand why he likes whatever.
To put it in short terms:spend time with him, it wont annoy him and he'll open up to you just give him time and try to find things he talks about with others its easier for him that way
(note: shy guys have a tendency not to notice when a girl is hitting on him etc)
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What maverick V is saying is true were quietest around the people we like the most
- Maverick - 12-11-2012 08:26 PM
Hey- as a 'kind of' shy guy- this is what has worked for girls in the past!
To be honest- I am most quiet around girls that I like.. its REALLY annoying... but for the most part I am chatty around people that I'm just 'friends' with... sounds a lot like this guy.
Anyways- what worked for me was the girl just asked me to do something with her (grab drinks, coffee, dinner etc) and was really blunt about it. "I want to be friends with you- lets go <place>"
I guess she also kinda warmed me up to the idea of being around- saying hi whenever she saw me, and going out of her way to learn stuff about me consistently. Eventually it just kinda became our 'thing' to talk to each other.... so then it became weird if we DIDN'T talk....
Now I'd say we are friends- so I guess it worked!
- Jenna - 12-11-2012 08:26 PM
I think if you be yourself around him he might feel more comfortable around you. Shy people tend to think about stuff more and be more realizing then most other people. He probobly senses that you like him, he just is to sy to do anything about it. Be yourself not some wierd little pricessy and perfect girl. Ask him if he would like to go to the movies with you and your friends. Ya know ? Try to include him with you, try to open him up. =)
I really hope this works for you, good luck !!
- Seth - 12-11-2012 08:26 PM
Ask him about himself. Ask what he likes.