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Should I tell him I'm a stalker? - Jeremy - 01-18-2013 08:38 AM
OK so I have a boyfriend...yay go me!!! He thinks we met randomly at this pub and got to talking and then starting seeing each other. But there is something he doesn't know.
I saw him randomly at a pub about a year ago. He was gorgeous...I fell in love and found out his name but didn't have the balls to talk to him....so I stalked him through facebook, twitter, by asking random questions to some of our mutual friends etc....I knew he was going to the pub one night so I went there to see him...
So basically we never randomly met. I stalked him learnt a couple of things about what he liked (bands and art) and struck up a conversation that way. I feel like such a weirdo and a creep (and ok yeah i am) but my question is....
should I tell him that I basically became obsessed with him? We're happy together but I feel like I am keeping this huge lie. If you were in his shoes and found out would you leave me?
- Alex - 01-18-2013 08:46 AM
Nah.
Facebook stalking is so common now a days its not really a big deal anymore.
- Lorena - 01-18-2013 08:46 AM
He'll probly just laugh and think its cute . i would
- Sophia A - 01-18-2013 08:46 AM
Do NOT tell him. EVER. Unless you wind up like, married/civil uniones with 2 adopted babies. It disrupts the power balance between the two of you. He will realise just how invested you are in him, and start to play because he will get confident. Keep your cards close to your chest babe.
It's a stupid cliche but it's definitely true with most guys - "Treat em mean, keep em keen".
- Summer Sun - 01-18-2013 08:46 AM
not unless you would like to see a grown man run a mile
- WaddlesThePig - 01-18-2013 08:46 AM
LOL, Thats so adorable... You should tell him anything to be honest.. He will probably think its cute you went trough all this trouble just to be with him... Atleast I think its ADORABLE, if any guy would do that for me... Trust in a relationship is very important~
- Green Goblin - 01-18-2013 08:46 AM
No. I'd probably dump you if I were him. So unless you want to take a chance with your relationship keep it to yourself. You have the rest of your life to be honest...
- Fantazmickb - 01-18-2013 08:46 AM
Some things may be best left unsaid...however you can tell him that you were aware of him for quite some time...you just had to work up the courage to make the first move.